Is it better to watch JAV or get a Japanese girlfriend?

Muz1234

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I don't know which is better. Sometimes I like watching JAV and love watching JAV, sometimes I chat with some of them on Facebook or find them on Japan-Guide.com. My Japanese skills are just still moderate, so yeah, which do you guys think is better?
 
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I'd rather have the sex myself than watching others have it.
 
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You are starting to remind me of someone Muz1234.....or should I call you josolopSon3?? He was the only other member I can remember who used to come up with these totally strange and pointless discussion thread topics. Not that those can't be fun too, just don't expect everyone to take you too seriously.

I think the worst sexual experience I ever had with a female was better than the best porn I ever saw. Of course porn comes with less complications, is more accessible, ages better and never argues with you. Yet porn cannot physically touch you, appreciate you, be moved by you or interact with you. Porn is a poor companion.


Get a girlfriend.
 
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Ceewan said:
You are starting to remind me of someone Muz1234.....or should I call you josolopSon3?? He was the only other member I can remember who used to come up with these totally strange and pointless discussion thread topics. Not that those can't be fun too, just don't expect everyone to take you too seriously.

I think the worst sexual experience I ever had with a female was better than the best porn I ever saw. Of course porn comes with less complications, is more accessible, ages better and never argues with you. Yet porn cannot physically touch you, appreciate you, be moved by you or interact with you. Porn is a poor companion.


Get a girlfriend.
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Is it really pointless? I just think it's better just to get something out of your head rather than let stick it inside bugging right. I just hope that I don't spam though. Not that those can't be fun? I don't understand that sentence.

Sometimes I keep thinking, watching porn is just way better, but I also want to experience sex myself. Porn ages better? What does that mean?

Seriously, I do really want a Japanese girlfriend, if I ever get one, I think I might just be so happy.
 
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Muz1234 said:
Is it really pointless? I just think it's better just to get something out of your head rather than let stick it inside bugging right. I just hope that I don't spam though.
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Pretty pointless. There is little doubt as to the answer to your initial query. Nobody is going to seriously argue that porn is better than sex with a live person, or even spending time with someone you like. That would be insane. Porn is just entertainment, that is all it is meant to be, nothing else. Certainly not a replacement for a real relationship.

So, you might not be spamming but maybe trolling a wee bit. And for your information, the majority of the stuff in your head should probably just stay in your head.

If you want a girl friend the first thing you have to do is learn to listen to others. That means really listening and not pretending to. This means that what others have to say should be considered important to you and what you have to say.....not so important to share. This may take a little practice and concentration on your part. People are not as interested in us as we would like to think but everybody likes to be thought of as interesting. So one sure way of getting others to be interested in you, is to be interested in them. Stalking would be too interested, don't smother others. Respect their boundaries.


Muz1234 said:
Not that those can't be fun? I don't understand that sentence.
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Pointless discussions can pass the time of day. Sometimes they can even be entertaining. Discourse is the heart of all knowledge and cultural exchange. Man can not live without it.


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Porn ages better? What does that mean?

Seriously, I do really want a Japanese girlfriend, if I ever get one, I think I might just be so happy.
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Porn is just digital media, it will be around as long as digital media exists. No wrinkles, no liver spots, no dentures, no growing old. Porn lasts forever....real people age at a natural rate.

Good luck on the girlfriend thing. Sounds like you will need it.
 
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Pointless discussions can pass the time of day. Sometimes they can even be entertaining. Discourse is the heart of all knowledge and cultural exchange. Man can not live without it.
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For me, I think its better to ask a question, because you do want to gain knowledge, right from other person. Knowledge that is beneficial to a person, I might say.

Ceewan said:
Porn is just digital media, it will be around as long as digital media exists. No wrinkles, no liver spots, no dentures, no growing old. Porn lasts forever....real people age at a natural rate.

Good luck on the girlfriend thing. Sounds like you will need it.
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Sometimes I watch porn, just to learn how do people have sex. The way Japanese have sex is, I have to say, sugoi, cause it's just sometimes entertaining and enjoying for most part. My favorite part is always the standing sex. If I ever get the chance, I want to try 'that' sex technique/position or others, or any thing I like, similar to the one I watched in a video.
 
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Sometimes I watch porn, just to learn how do people have sex. The way Japanese have sex is, I have to say, sugoi, cause it's just sometimes entertaining and enjoying for most part. My favorite part is always the standing sex. If I ever get the chance, I want to try 'that' sex technique/position or others, or any thing I like, similar to the one I watched in a video.
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Ehm, means people in other countries don't have sex while standing?
 
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I don't watch Western porn much, I watch sometimes, but it just doesn't turn me on. :P
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In Western porn they definitely also do it while standing. But I have to admit that I was talking about reality. Sounded like you thought that only Japanese people - in real life - do it while standing. ;)
 
Sometimes watching porn turns me on, I think it's better than finding girlfriend, cause finding a girl just takes more effort. But it just sucks if you cum early and then lose interest.
 
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Sometimes watching porn turns me on, I think it's better than finding girlfriend, cause finding a girl just takes more effort. But it just sucks if you cum early and then lose interest.
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just meet as many young Japanese women as you can if you happen to live there or if your community has a decent amount of Japanese women in your area. I hear you about the amount of work it takes to attract girls, to approach them, etc...But if you sincerely feel being with a Japanese girl will make you happy as well as give you incredible sex, then I think it's worth making the effort to go and find her ^.^
 
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just meet as many young Japanese women as you can if you happen to live there or if your community has a decent amount of Japanese women in your area. I hear you about the amount of work it takes to attract girls, to approach them, etc...But if you sincerely feel being with a Japanese girl will make you happy as well as give you incredible sex, then I think it's worth making the effort to go and find her ^.^
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The problem is I am not in Japan. I wish I could live in Japan someday, study or something. Who is that girl in your avatar?
 
Not prostitute. Girlfriend.

Sure brothels allow gaijin. they won't speak enhlish but a little japanese study and u should be fine.
 
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Not prostitute. Girlfriend.

Sure brothels allow gaijin. they won't speak enhlish but a little japanese study and u should be fine.
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Are you living in Osaka? I heard the brothels there are popular. How is your Japanese fluency?
 
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