Masturbate to a girl you know in real life?

[Muz1234]

Have you guys masturbate to a girl that is in real life? I mean I know you guys usually masturbate to pictures or videos from JAV videos, but what about real life girls that you really know? Have you ever like, 'save' their picture, and masturbate on it? I know this might sounds dirty, but I just wanna know if any of you like to share their opinions.

 

[ozone]

yes, i do. i masturbated on my wife's best friend, a neighbor and even my wife's sister.

 

[Muz1234]

yes, i do. i masturbated on my wife's best friend, a neighbor and even my wife's sister.

I mean, do you have like their photo album or something and keep it?

 

[derhier]

Yeah, I do it quite often. Masturbate to friends, colleagues and other girls/women I know. I mostly use photos from Facebook

 

[Muz1234]

lol, what if its your girlfriend? Will you tell her, that you masturbate her photo?

 

[CodeGeek]

lol, what if its your girlfriend? Will you tell her, that you masturbate her photo?

I guess that should be smallest problem. If you tell her that thinking about someone else it would be quiet something. But some women also don't have a problem watching porn with you while others would break up with you because of that.

 

[Muz1234]

The one who wants to break up, I find that so extreme, IMO. Maybe they think its disgraceful? Moreover, if you know her and the women don't know you at all, I wonder what she might thinks if she founds out this habit.

 

[ozone]

yes, i do have photos of them. and i digitized them for easy viewing... well if it's your girlfriend, you don't have to masturbate at her photo. just ask her for a live chat.

 

[Ceewan]

The one who wants to break up, I find that so extreme, IMO. Maybe they think its disgraceful?

The logic is pretty solid actually. If you will cheat on them in your fantasies then many women figure you will cheat on them in real life. Thought precludes action.


Who doesn't masturbate, on one occasion or another, man or woman, about someone they know? To quote Hannibal Lecter from the movie "Silence of the Lambs":

"We begin by coveting what we see every day. Don't you feel eyes moving over your body, Clarice? And don't your eyes seek out the things you want?"

Personally, I find it more enjoyable to masturbate on someone I know. A bit messy but fun.

 

[Muz1234]

Have you ever masturbated to a woman in public, like stand in a balcony, then watch a hot girl pass by and cum, lol. I mean you know in Japan, they just cum at the woman in public, and runs away, which is so meany, and fun I guess.

 

[CodeGeek]

Have you ever masturbated to a woman in public, like stand in a balcony, then watch a hot girl pass by and cum, lol. I mean you know in Japan, they just cum at the woman in public, and runs away, which is so meany, and fun I guess.

So far I've only see this in JAV. And I think it is some kind of sick, isn't it? In Japan as well as in other countries.

The thoughts of everyone are (luckily) free and everyone can think of everything if he / she wants. So I think there is no problem or harm if you masturbating thinking about someone. At least if it doesn't lead to anything wrong (like r***, stalking, etc.). But if it results in real life actions (and I don't mean trying to date that person the normal way) it is a problem.

 

[Muz1234]

Is masturbating better than finding a girl in real life? Sometimes you know you just feel so lonely, and you can't help the sex urge inside you.

 

[Desu]

Is masturbating better than finding a girl in real life?

wait. are you serious?

 

[Muz1234]

wait. are you serious?

Serious? You mean the question or what? I really don't know which is better though.

 

[Desu]

yeah i meant if it was a serious or rhetorical question.
it's like asking if it's better being poor or rich.

 

[Muz1234]

yeah i meant if it was a serious or rhetorical question.
it's like asking if it's better being poor or rich.

Maybe it is rhetorical. I don't know, sometimes, I do feel masturbating is better than finding someone, because the latter somehow increases responsibility, yes?

 

[Muz1234]

Sometimes I do feel fun masturbate to a girl you know in real life. Moreover, if you like the girl, that could be better. I don't know if masturbation to a real photo of girl while valuing the enjoyment can be consider a step in choosing or making decision which girl is suitable for you to date with. lol

 

[seitoseitan]

Get a girlfriend man. Masturbate is just an alternatives. The primary sex with your gf embraced by love is what can we call as a heaven in earth itself. When i'm virgin before back in the days, the first time i hold my gf warm hand makes me extremely hard that i masturbated straight after i'm home. so warm and so soft. arghhh... what a moment.

 

[Gaspard]

Every time i'm masturbating i kind of do it.

If i close my eyes my mind tend to escape the jav world to go in sexual fantasy about people i work with or other.. it's pretty natural i think.

It's like that since the first time i masturbated when i was around 13yo (long time ago).

 

[Gaspard]

You never closed your eyes while not sleeping and imagined you with a girl you liked while masturbating ?