to blow or not to blow?

[HarutoAsou]

random question I've always wondered about.

If you are pursuing a girl you genuinely like and want to start a relationship with (not just sex) should you blow your load before meeting her? I see it as a double edged sword.

If you blow you will feel more relaxed.

If you don't blow, you'll be more aggressive in the sense of actually wanting her to be your GF. (from experience, most of my ONS (one night stand) have happened because I hadn't blown in the past couple of days and I wanted relief)

I typically do blow...but I'm wondering if I should change my tactic haha.

Do you guys blow before meeting a girl you like or not?

 

[aquamarine]

If you beat off before you go out, you'll be more relaxed but also a LOT more passive which most women see as a form of indifference. In anime that's great "Oh, he's so cool because he doesn't care" but if you're a little bit aggressive (not sexual predator style like that kramer-x fag) then that is in your favor.

 

[HarutoAsou]

Yeah, passive, that's the word I was looking for. Anyways this girl is one of the slow types, I got as far as holding her hand and putting my arm around her, she wouldn't let me go any farther than that...WTF, makes me want her even more hahaha (maybe that's the idea)

 

[voltesv]

something about mary.... is that hair gel?

 

[CoolKevin]

something about mary.... is that hair gel?

that was the first thing that come in my mind as well