What do they mean when they say a vagina feels warm, feels tight and full of pressure to penetrate, and it wraps all over your penis?

Mar 19, 2017
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I ask this question because of sheer confusion. You just have to see all the posts online from Reddit to Quora and various porn sites as well as the now defunct Yahoo Answers about how when you have sex not only is it the most heavenly thing ever but that the vagina feels really warm and right. That every time you ram you feel immense pressure each time you thrust and sex feels like a vagina wraps around your penis.

I just had sex for the first time over the weekend. Now I don't understand what guys claiming to have sex means at all because the whole time during the session I literally did not feel anything in my penis during sex. It felt weird like a numb sensation where my penis feels so hard yet I felt addicted to the thrusting I kept doing it until I lost consciousness. The last thing I remembered before the girl and I both slept is that despite feeling numb the whole time I suddenly felt at one point my mind literally exploded. Then I felt drowsy and fell asleep. I did not realize that semen was in my partner's vagina and had spilled onto the bed until I woke up later. I did not at all fee my penis ejaculating because as I said I literally felt nothing except my penis being so hard and throbbing even when I felt my mind exploded before being knocked out asleep.

So I ask what exactly do they mean when they say a vagina is warm, tight, and wraps around your penis in pleasure during penetration? What exactly is meant by pressure that feels so difficult to overcome yet feels so good? I cannot understand at all especially in comparison to how good masturbation feels where my penis feels so sensitive that every touch literally tickles and my penis feels swollen as I feel the tingly sensation rubbing the penis that just feels so good.

This sex session I just felt nothing in my penis similar to a way that describes numbness except I can feel throbbing in my penis along with it being s hard as a rock. Sure its my first time and I was figuring out what to do but considering I saw semen on the bed and my partner's vagina having some of the white stuff I must have orgasm. Yet I did not feel the typical I do in masturbating.

Can anyone explain what happened and why I didn't feel all the typical sensations people describe online? Is what I felt how sex is actually like?
 

bwc83

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Oct 28, 2024
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A fair amount of this is due to partners genital size and shape. I've had experiences similar to yours where there wasn't much feeling, and others where it's was super stimulating with lots of grabbing hugging sensations. So yea, congrats on your first time and know that everyone's bits are different, and thus feel different!
 

alec-ballsin

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Mar 31, 2024
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Some vaginas are cavernous and some indeed are warm and tight. Your dick size does not play a big role in this. I'm very average in size but out of ~ten women only one was very cavernous and senseless, one was noticeably big but still warm and "huggy", and the rest have felt very good. It is unfortunate that your first one had to be a "lousy" one. But you probably already know that penetration is just one tool available in sex.