Prevalence / Popularity / Acceptance of kink / fetish in Japanese Dating Circle

TeaFlask01

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I admit I've sexual preference for Asian women especially Japanese ones. But I never fetishize or objectify women , that is something beneath me.

When we humans are horny we tend to think with our genitals instead of brain . So I was considering my options after becoming not-horny !

It's possible for me to get a software engineering job in Japan. I know many senior brothers from my university who're working as soft. engineer in many Japanese companies in good position, chances are they'll refer me for job interview.

I'm also learning the language.

I know in western society, before getting married or while dating it's quite common to have physical intimacy after 2nd/3rd date and it continues that way so may both partners get to know each other well and know about each-other's compatibility. But I'm not sure whether it's the same for Japan.

Some of my questions are :
1) How dating works in Japan ?
2) Like in west , is it common to talk about kinks after 2~3 dates ?
3) How do you know you won't end up in a vanilla relationship?
4) Thing is , is having "cuck/hotwife" fetish looked down upon by women in Japanese society ?

Personally I'm inclined to hotwife/cuckold lifestyle and have tried it successfully with my previous ex girlfriend for many years . We eventually broke up for getting jobs in different locations. That kink had nothing to do with breakup.
Unlike what western porn tries to depict , my ex-gf knew just because one is into cuck lifestyle doesn't mean the man is weak , meek , feeble . It's just a fetish to spice up life. Cucking doesn't have to be humiliation / degradation.

5) What are the chances that I'll find a woman who respects my fetish and understands it's fine to enjoy this lifestyle in Japan?