As a girl I want to know this abt JAV and Hentai lovers

[darksider59]

Well I don't imagine you are asking for my opinion, but there's not much else to talk about on AO... So I will waste a few mins...

I'm always fine with reading other people opinion, it gives me an external point of view.

I just can't imagine where you live now is such a wasteland for meeting girls. I understand what you wrote but I can't understand your thinking. Waiting a bit doesn't make the girls you will meet in the future any better. So how can it be "worth it"? The longer your "desert walk" is, the less you will be attractive to girls. You will be older, which is fine, but when girls meet an older boy they expect him to be more experienced and charming. If you lack experience with girls (I mean the talking and dating and being a nice BF), they will not treat you seriously.

Sure you are improving yourself in other ways, sports and work and money and learning. But that's not enough. Having a GF now may affect your current lifestyle a bit (but you can control it) but it's also a way to improve yourself whenever you get to Japan (or anywhere), to meet a good girl.

I live in a small city where there are only 6000 people. There are dating apps and stuff so that's not the main issue. It's more that the girls I used to date, when I look back, I would not want to date them again. As I grew up, my tastes changed. I always have in mind what I said to a friend when we saw another friend always dating new girls (not attractive most of time) : "I rather prefer being single than being with a girl I don't like just to have a GF".
Even if I'm single, I still have interaction with girls, and I agree it's important to not look awkward when it's dating time.

Having a GF now may affect your current lifestyle a bit (but you can control it) but it's also a way to improve yourself whenever you get to Japan (or anywhere), to meet a good girl. I will try to keep that in mind to remember it if a sudden occasion happens with a girl (to let the door "open").

I know many girls or women in the world can't accept porn. I don't care about them. They live in the dark ages. Anti-porn religion/ideology are harmful to women, if they don't get it, they don't get it.

What makes me laugh is girls who say "porn is disgusting, a guy should be ashamed to watch that, blabla ..." but watch all kind of over sexualized TV contents with fake girls (in France, there are many stupid shows like that and that's popular, I can't explain lol).

 

[ding73ding]

Well all of a sudden gay porn or semi-gay porn become a thing on AO (I'm a little guilty of causing it)... I want to discuss my angle, but it's not quite right in the newhalf thread. I'd much rather talk about bi-curious girls

First my own bi-curiosity: well like most boys having received some Western influence, I was quite homophobic myself, not the bigot kind (hating gay people) but I could't stand another penis during a sexual activity (sadly my group sex experience is very limited). If there's group sex, I could only imagine 2 or more girls in a 3P or harem situation, not the MMF 3P.

But as I get older and becoming sure of myself, I no long fear/dislike having another cock around, even another man's sperm. I'm now tolerant of, say, sharing a pussy with another cock.

Ever looking for new and exciting and freaky, I can even tolerate some kind of deviants such as tranny and fake futanari or even real newhalf/futanari. (see various active threads). E.g. the newhalf thread is discussing now cute/feminine newhalf who are beautiful enough to pass as female but with a penis. I have to say I'm at least a little curious, at least watching on AV (if not IRL).

But thinking/analysing about it, is there anything wrong with newhalf? Maybe not much. Ultimately what gives me pleasure is (1) thrusting my cock in pussy or mouth or asshole (but I only use one at a time and a newhalf is able to give me two) and (2) I love playing with female body parts esp. boobs and buttocks. And a good newhalf may give me both for my grabbing pleasures. So I think Yes I can fuck a newhalf if such a situation presents itself. But would I enjoy or prefer more? (because of the freak factor?) No... I think if a 100%-female is around, I always prefer the female over the newhalf. I may tolerate the extra penis, but I have no use for it.

Even a different (much more common) situation: MMF 3P, I love watching DP, both the simple (mouth+pussy) DP and the more intense (pussy+asshole) DP. But in real life, I am sure it's awkward to have two guys banging a girl at the same time. I could/would do it, but I imagine the main reason to do it must be centered at the girl. She want to have an intense experience, or I want to give her the same. It would not be for my pleasure or desire to participate in DP.

It would feel pretty queer, while I'm in her (say) rectum, to feel the thrusting hardness of the other cock pumping the vagina.

I think most girls are a little bisexual if they're completely honest...
And like most girls in the US at least. I've experimented a bit with other girls. And I would by lying if I said it wasn't fun. I still prefer guys but the occasional girl is lots of fun.

If I may suggest a different angle. I think it's not girls are more likely to be bi-curious, but boys are more likely to be homophobic. Say if I want my cock sucked, what difference does it make that the mouth belongs to a boy or a girl? Boys tend to be irrationally unaccepting of another male. But girls, say when you enjoy having your nipples played with or pussy licked, girls don't make a fuss over the mouth or tongue being male or female.

Ultimately, sperm is key. Sperm can impregnate, in archaic view, taint a girl, so boys have a huge resistant to sperm, and by extension to cocks that can shoot sperm, and further extension even a mouth attached to a guy who has a penis which shoot sperm, that mouth can not come close to my dick. Otherwise a spacetime continuum disruption will open up and swallow me in it, meaning, it would be gay.

Admittedly I think the part I like the most is that I know doing things with another girl makes my man horny and that in turn makes it even hotter. If that makes any sense at all.

Yes I think that is exactly right. All guys dream of having more than one girls to him, and having his girl doing sex with another man is extremely unacceptable to him (for most boys), so having his girl (e.g.) penetrated by another girl's tongue or finger, you get the positive stimulation of competition/ jealousy, but without the problem of having her tainted by another guy's sperm.

Another angle is this. I'd like to fuck 2 or more or as many as possible girls. But alas I have only one dick and I don't have infinite stamina, so it would be unfair to the ladies if I can't satisfy each of them fully. So either having other guys joining (an orgy) or have them tongue or dildo each other. That way I get to "travel" between so many pussies (and mouths and maybe more) and won't have the pressure to satisfy all of them on my own.

Put it differently, I have zero interest in cocks (other than my own) but if all the girls are happy (sufficient ratio of cocks to pussies) I will have a great time too.

I'm curious how the other side feel about this, how girls (@yesmissy ) feel about multiple cocks. If somehow there's a zero burden situation. Say your BF is totally non-jealous, or you don't have a BF at all, just having two... let's say... boy-toys at your service, two male strippers, let's say. Would you like two (or more!) at the same time? Or that's never an attraction, you just want one cock in one session?

 

[pikuseru]

Females really are more likely to bisexual. It has nothing to do with homophobia in males. The main reason for the higher rate of bisexuality in females is because of the shorter life expectancy of males. In the world, females outnumber males. Males are the hunters, females the gatherers. Males are the risk-takers. Males are more aggressive. Males are more violent. Males are more likely to victims of violence. These attributes give males some advantages in terms of passing on their genes pass on, but it also means they are more likely to die young and leave their female partners and children behind.

For females, there are more advantages to being bisexual . If their men die, maybe the remaining women can partner together and survive. It's just Darwin's theory of evolution at work: throughout human history, the females who were bisexual were more likely to pass on their genes, heterosexuality could be a disadvantage, and so heterosexuality in females became naturally selected out.

 

[yesmissy]

@ding73ding Sorry for taking so long to reply. I don't come here every day.

Anyway, I do enjoy the thought of multiple guys at one time. And I have experienced two at one time (only once) and it was a pretty awesome experience.

The attraction, at least for me, is the idea of multiple guys feeling that much desire for me that they want to fuck me together. Like I've got all these multiple men's attention. I do fantasize about gangbang sort of situations, they seem awesome in my head, but in reality I'll probably never do that because I can't imagine how I'd do it safely.

All that said it's not an overwhelming fantasy or anything. I could live without it. I mostly desire my boyfriend and if he's happy, I'm happy.

I do understand though how important variety is for men though, and he has permission to fuck other girls as long as it's me he always comes home to. And we do have FFM threesome relatively often which are a lot of fun.

There's nothing quite like watching your man fuck another girl.

 

[airport5]

I'm usually pretty open. I let them know I watch j porn. I did date a women in Thailand that enjoyed j porn. We would watch it together. I never told her I liked watching young girls as young as 12 years old.

 

[ding73ding]

I do fantasize about gangbang sort of situations, they seem awesome in my head, but in reality I'll probably never do that because I can't imagine how I'd do it safely.

he has permission to fuck other girls as long as it's me he always comes home to.

Bingo!

The real life problem of gangbang, and actually harlem/reverse gangbang as well, is when you have a difference in numbers (3 to 1 or more), the single is going to lose control within a short time. Even a simple MFF 3P could easily get ugly for the guy if the two girls are comfortable with each other and gang up on the guy. For a MMF 3P I suppose jealousy between the two guys plus the natural advantage that a girl can easily take two cocks at the same time, will make things more manageable for the girl. Once you have 3 guys on 1 girl, it's probably gonna get out of control before you know it (getting splattered in places you don't like).

You know once I play it out in my head, the advantage for a girl is huge. An orgasm takes a lot of stamina out of an average guy, so even in 1 vs 4, the girl can fairly easily calm down most or all the guys by making each of them cum. Say you get on top of one guy and ride him hard, if you know that motion you can milk him in about 2-3 minutes. At the same time grab a hold of another cock and jerk him off, also a sub-5-minute challenge. Then the remaining two guys... there's a chance they are clear-headed and notice what you are doing, otherwise, they may get easily pwned by you in the same fashion. Even if not, with the first two guys take a break to recover, you can still take no. 3 up the pussy while blow the last guy. Status GREEN: situation under control. Further, making a guy cum twice within 15 minutes will pretty much knock him out for the session, so a gangbang only get nasty for a girl if more than 2 guys managed to delay/control his ejaculation.

But consider a 3 vs. 1, even if the 3 girls don't gang up and be mean to the guy, he will struggle to manage them all, assuming every person in the game are in a state of horny-ness.

OTOH the possessiveness/jealousy for either man or woman is silly and archaic. What matters in a relationship is reliability and mutual trust. And of course an understanding that both partners are each other's primary sex partners. Which somewhat ties to another thread about dating or having a relationship with JAV performer. If one or both partners is regularly having sex with other people (under any circumstances, including purely for work) then it's kind of iffy to call it dating or a relationship. Even in an "open" relationship, if one person is having sex with other person(s) several times a week, that's pretty nuts.

Anyway, just saying you are so so right. The world is a better place if both men and women can think more like you.

 

[Steve81]

My wife is Japanese and loves watching porn. So I download various videos for us to watch together, makes us both excited.