Can you accept an av idol or pornstar as your girlfriend?

[bigloser0]

if the actress is haruka kasumi or erika momotani, then sure, anytime

they're the only marry-able actresses out there , at least for me

What's with these 2 that you say they are the ones that you want to marry?
Or simply are they your favourites?

 

[bigloser0]

???? It really depends on the kind of girls you are talking about and where you get those girls. Often, when people say attractive girls, they are talking about girls in mini skirts in clubs. To me, it's more slutty than attractive. Anyway, tons of beautiful girls aren't sex maniacs that try to get a new guy every day because if they are looking for date, they are looking for a serious relationship.



I agree on Haruka Kasumi. Wife material for sure. I would add Kitano Nozomi, Suzumura Airi, Kato Rina, Nagasawa Azusa, Takachiho Suzu. and one of my new favorites Mitani Akari : in one movie, there is a really casual moment where I thought "wow, she's legit gf material".

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How do you consider them as legit gf material?
Is it because you know something about their private life or just based on the video they produced (some scenes)?

oh dear. the 2nd photo looks good.
I like slim girls wearing cropped white top with a little belly.

 

[bigloser0]

If you really really love the girl, it doesn't really matter how ugly she looks, what is her past, virgin or non-virgin, etc.
IT DOESN'T MATTER.
Cuz you may never find someone like her again.

If you really find a pretty JAV actress who loves you and you love her deeply, cherish her.
Generally, most JAV actresses (including the jukujos) are prettier than the average Japanese girls on the streets.

 

[bigloser0]

I dated an escort (it took almost a year to change from john to trusted friend).
We were both very much in love with each other for many years.
She is happily married and lives an A-level professional "normal" life now.
Our friendship remains one of the most treasured experiences I've had in this lifetime.

I believe she gave you a different perspective in life that people not in their world can.
They are humans after all.
And they need love too.
I believe she trusted you a lot.


Thank you for sharing.

Sometimes I believe these escorts/prositutues/JAV actresses could be a better human being than your average girl.
Not only do they look prettier, they may not have a tendency to judge people too quickly.

 

[bigloser0]

JAV actress as girlfriend or even wife, why not?
I hope I am rich enough to support her and allow her to quit immediately.
Too bad, this is not the case in real life.

Have been dripping cum on my panties almost on a daily basis.
Maybe she has a way of stopping me and making me healthier without ejaculation.

 

[bigloser0]

???? It really depends on the kind of girls you are talking about and where you get those girls. Often, when people say attractive girls, they are talking about girls in mini skirts in clubs. To me, it's more slutty than attractive. Anyway, tons of beautiful girls aren't sex maniacs that try to get a new guy every day because if they are looking for date, they are looking for a serious relationship.



I agree on Haruka Kasumi. Wife material for sure. I would add Kitano Nozomi, Suzumura Airi, Kato Rina, Nagasawa Azusa, Takachiho Suzu. and one of my new favorites Mitani Akari : in one movie, there is a really casual moment where I thought "wow, she's legit gf material".

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with girl in the 2nd photo, I also want to hold her hand and walk in the park.
so happy.
no sex? never mind.
the warmth from your hand makes me wet my panties already.

 

[tmas3]

Can you accept an av idol or pornstar as your girlfriend?

of course! I'd be honored to share the same pussy with golden archer

 

[bigloser0]

of course! I'd be honored to share the same pussy with golden archer
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this girl looks very young and is a really fresh meat!

 

[darksider59]

I agree with the last statement but I'm speaking from experience. Even if a girl doesn't dress slutty they sleep around a lot (again, in my experience). This is what I observed even when I was back in secondary grammar school, and then university and even among my broader circle of friends. The pretty girls always had one boyfriend after the other.

Oh okay I see. Because I remember in high school, there weren't a lot of girls but there were some very attractive and it was almost impossible to reach them lol. One knew one of my classmates and when I had a talk with her once, she was very shy. Same for another girl, manga fan and also school geek lol, cute girl (nice brown leather jacket and tight jeans).

Indeed, it depends on your personnality and the people around you I guess. Some HS friends were really active and were getting gf after another, so I guess the girls were the same on their side. They used to go to parties and stuff like that, things I didn't do and still don't do (not a fan of that, I don't drink and I don't like club music haha).

How do you consider them as legit gf material?
Is it because you know something about their private life or just based on the video they produced (some scenes)?

oh dear. the 2nd photo looks good.
I like slim girls wearing cropped white top with a little belly.

For me, legit GF material in JAV movies is when I find the girl cute, has a calm personnality (from what I see). Obviously, the girl doesn't look like an AV actress (a lot of AV actresses don't look like AV actresses lol).

I think her little belly is visible because of her bag pushing on her T-shirt.

with girl in the 2nd photo, I also want to hold her hand and walk in the park.
so happy.
no sex? never mind.
the warmth from your hand makes me wet my panties already.

In the movie, there are sex scenes after. She has sex with her bf's friend haha.

 

[bigloser0]

For me, legit GF material in JAV movies is when I find the girl cute, has a calm personnality (from what I see). Obviously, the girl doesn't look like an AV actress (a lot of AV actresses don't look like AV actresses lol).

I think her little belly is visible because of her bag pushing on her T-shirt.

I like your sharing of "the girl doesn't look like an AV actress"

The little belly is cute!

 

[Muten_Roshi]

What's with these 2 that you say they are the ones that you want to marry?
Or simply are they your favourites?

the reason why i liked these two was not because they were my favourite JAV actresses... i liked them because they were indeed the marry-able type of girls, and just happened to be JAV actresses... i can't say the same to any other JAV actresses that i know of...

and to think of it, both of them retired around 2016 or so... probably to turn a new page in life, or even actually get married...

so disappointed that neither did any uncensored though

 

[bigloser0]

the reason why i liked these two was not because they were my favourite JAV actresses... i liked them because they were indeed the marry-able type of girls, and just happened to be JAV actresses... i can't say the same to any other JAV actresses that i know of...

and to think of it, both of them retired around 2016 or so... probably to turn a new page in life, or even actually get married...

so disappointed that neither did any uncensored though

I guess you made a choice of marry-able girls based on their looks?
The first lady looks good.

 

[pikuseru]

Beautiful girl gets a lot more attention from guys than an ugly girl. Just something we have to accept if we want a beautiful girl.

But I don't think I could marry a JAV actress due to my lack of proficency with the Japanese language. It would likely be a very awkward relationship.

 

[silent1one]

Oh okay I see. Because I remember in high school, there weren't a lot of girls but there were some very attractive and it was almost impossible to reach them lol. One knew one of my classmates and when I had a talk with her once, she was very shy. Same for another girl, manga fan and also school geek lol, cute girl (nice brown leather jacket and tight jeans).

Indeed, it depends on your personnality and the people around you I guess. Some HS friends were really active and were getting gf after another, so I guess the girls were the same on their side. They used to go to parties and stuff like that, things I didn't do and still don't do (not a fan of that, I don't drink and I don't like club music haha).



For me, legit GF material in JAV movies is when I find the girl cute, has a calm personnality (from what I see). Obviously, the girl doesn't look like an AV actress (a lot of AV actresses don't look like AV actresses lol).

I think her little belly is visible because of her bag pushing on her T-shirt.


In the movie, there are sex scenes after. She has sex with her bf's friend haha.

Av idols can be just a picky and we need to break the language barrier first. Still need looks and money though and I wanted some of them during their peak. If they can be loyal and willing to settle down for you after retirement and you can't find better nice hot girls then it's fine. It's hard for you to accept her past and introduce her to family and friends or meet her family in private knowing she was used by easy old guys before. I'm curious if ai uehara did got married since she was pumping all quantity with her being degraded and violated by elderly and gb "fans" many times a month. We don't know much about their private life non av persona though. For girls like yui hatano, yua mikami, the popular old and new girls are constantly at events promoting and filming without much of a social life like regular celebrities. They always get a lot of fans and it's hard not to bump in to one of her ex or fan knowing her on the street in Asia even with mask on asking for photos. For the popular veterans staying in I don't think they care too much about romance. Av actors got their own family and from fans to 20-30 years actors, they're paid to constantly f new girls every month. Competition is hard and some aren't going to randomly settle down.

 

[silent1one]

I guess you made a choice of marry-able girls based on their looks?
The first lady looks good.

Looks before Personality. We are always bias. The same with teacher and students and police and criminals. first impression matters. However, personality always matter because you don't want to cuddle with someone vile drug addict for the rest of you life. Av idols fans are the same. They care about whats going on with their personal life and always do those Mock interviews to please fans. Meanwhile, smaller lesser known idols don't get much promotion or make that much more than minimum wage worker that works 5 days a week. All av idols strive to be like sora Aoi and yua mikami until they're old and agency and studio drop and stop promoting them.

 

[darksider59]

Av idols can be just a picky and we need to break the language barrier first. Still need looks and money though and I wanted some of them during their peak. If they can be loyal and willing to settle down for you after retirement and you can't find better nice hot girls then it's fine. It's hard for you to accept her past and introduce her to family and friends or meet her family in private knowing she was used by easy old guys before. I'm curious if ai uehara did got married since she was pumping all quantity with her being degraded and violated by elderly and gb "fans" many times a month. We don't know much about their private life non av persona though. For girls like yui hatano, yua mikami, the popular old and new girls are constantly at events promoting and filming without much of a social life like regular celebrities. They always get a lot of fans and it's hard not to bump in to one of her ex or fan knowing her on the street in Asia even with mask on asking for photos. For the popular veterans staying in I don't think they care too much about romance. Av actors got their own family and from fans to 20-30 years actors, they're paid to constantly f new girls every month. Competition is hard and some aren't going to randomly settle down.

Introduce her to the family could be fine, at least for me. I'm kinda private, I never talk about my job to them, so they wouldn't know her past. I think it would be more difficult once you have kids, as you never know if one of their classmates finds out about her AV movies. The girls mentionned by me and Muten_Rochi weren't huge name, so life could be easier than being with Yui Hatano or Yua Mikami. I would have to do the bodyguard at the same time lol.

Looks before Personality. We are always bias. The same with teacher and students and police and criminals. first impression matters. However, personality always matter because you don't want to cuddle with someone vile drug addict for the rest of you life. Av idols fans are the same. They care about whats going on with their personal life and always do those Mock interviews to please fans. Meanwhile, smaller lesser known idols don't get much promotion or make that much more than minimum wage worker that works 5 days a week. All av idols strive to be like sora Aoi and yua mikami until they're old and agency and studio drop and stop promoting them.

Of course personnality is very important. I would say that it can even go as far as a 60/40 ratio. A slighly "less" beautiful girl (still looking attractive to me) with a great personnality is far better than a hot chick with a shitty personnality. You can have a lot of fun with the first one (going to various places, chatting, cuddling) but with the second one, probably not.

 

[Supmop]

???? It really depends on the kind of girls you are talking about and where you get those girls. Often, when people say attractive girls, they are talking about girls in mini skirts in clubs. To me, it's more slutty than attractive. Anyway, tons of beautiful girls aren't sex maniacs that try to get a new guy every day because if they are looking for date, they are looking for a serious relationship.

+100

oftenly people are confused between slutty / skanky with attractive

same like many people don't know the differences between lust and love

 

[silent1one]

Introduce her to the family could be fine, at least for me. I'm kinda private, I never talk about my job to them, so they wouldn't know her past. I think it would be more difficult once you have kids, as you never know if one of their classmates finds out about her AV movies. The girls mentionned by me and Muten_Rochi weren't huge name, so life could be easier than being with Yui Hatano or Yua Mikami. I would have to do the bodyguard at the same time lol.



Of course personnality is very important. I would say that it can even go as far as a 60/40 ratio. A slighly "less" beautiful girl (still looking attractive to me) with a great personnality is far better than a hot chick with a shitty personnality. You can have a lot of fun with the first one (going to various places, chatting, cuddling) but with the second one, probably not.

It depends, but You don't want to be controlling yet you will get paranoid. You got to worry about her colorful social life and faithfulness when you're not around especially if she's still young and love to have fun maybe not partying night out, but the trust issue always gets you. There's a line between is this casual or something more and exclusive. Some av idols still have casual dates while still filming too. The fans doesn't get angry at the actors that much, but probably give you a harder time for taking their goddess like sora Aoi fans after she got married. She's still very memorable to fans after retiring for like 8 years and still the poster girl for av during its peak in general. Although, she films very vanilla titles. She even joke about her husband as not rich or handsome, which gives some dudes hope in chasing after their idols. I'm curious how their families handle them. The public isn't that problematic especially news last a day or two from now and then, but having family support and respect is more important.

 

[darksider59]

It depends, but You don't want to be controlling yet you will get paranoid. You got to worry about her colorful social life and faithfulness when you're not around especially if she's still young and love to have fun maybe not partying night out, but the trust issue always gets you. There's a line between is this casual or something more and exclusive. Some av idols still have casual dates while still filming too. The fans doesn't get angry at the actors that much, but probably give you a harder time for taking their goddess like sora Aoi fans after she got married. She's still very memorable to fans after retiring for like 8 years and still the poster girl for av during its peak in general. Although, she films very vanilla titles. She even joke about her husband as not rich or handsome, which gives some dudes hope in chasing after their idols. I'm curious how their families handle them. The public isn't that problematic especially news last a day or two from now and then, but having family support and respect is more important.

Sora Aoi found a down to earth and reliable man that probably really cares about her, not the AV idol she was. On her side, she was also probably looking for a serious relationship after her AV retirement. Not all AV actresses are sex maniacs outside work, and it's probably the opposite in many cases, so trust issue shouldn't be a problem once you are dating step by step. Plus they have the AV tag that makes it difficult to find a serious relationship after they end their AV career so if they are looking for a good person, the girls might not want to screw their chances of finding someone.

 

[Muten_Roshi]

stop it guys...

you notice someone because of looks, and only looks... period!

all arguments on personality that comes after is rubbish because you'll need to accept anyway whatever that person brings... unless the person is a psycho killer of a nutcase...

social opinion is rubbish as well... don't forget that while these people work on the adult industry, its still just work... they still have their own private lives... actually even more private than your average neighbour...

heck i've accidentally met nana ninomiya casually walking around at a tourist spot a couple of years back... i approached and asked purely with my crappy japanese just to be sure that it was her, and asked for a picture... and im sure not a single soul around cares even if they happen to know what her job is...

fun fact: it was my girlfriend who took the picture... didn't mind at all, just gave me a classic girly punch on my arm for being naughty