Do you watch JAV even if you are married?

CodeGeek

Akiba Citizen
Nov 2, 2010
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You sure the wife won't complain?

I guess it depends on various things:
  • Does she know that you watch JAV?
  • What is her opinion about JAV (or porn in general)?
  • Does she also like to watch it?
  • How naughty is she?
  • Is she, maybe, bisexual (at least to some degree)?
  • ...
Seems you have an interesting image of women, Muz1234, don't you? :smoke:

Unfortunately there aren't many female members on AO - especially in the adult and JAV section. Otherwise they could share their opinions how they feel about JAV / porn after getting married. That would be interesting. Otherwise the statements here are very single sided.
 

ding73ding

Akiba Citizen
Oct 25, 2009
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It sounds like you are a younger guy. Do you a girlfriend now? A serious girlfriend? A fiancee? If the answer is yes, then you don't need to worry about "women", you just need to understand your "woman". It doesn't matter what most women think or do or say, you just have to reach an agreement with your special someone.

If you don't have a girlfriend now, then I can explain some things to you, others (men or women) are welcome to chime in and discuss.

1. most women don't like JAV and porn.
2. they don't like it because (1) she wants to have a man who only have eyes for her, and no other women, even if it's just pixels on a screen
3. they don't like it or pretend to dislike it because (2) she thinks if she tolerate her man to watch porn, he would take the next step and become unfaithful
4. it's quite possible to convince some women to accept a boyfriend or husband who have a mild addiction to JAV/porn, excluding some devout religious type, of course
5. what does it take to make a woman accepts it? To start with, you have to be a sufficiently attractive mate, meaning otaku (in the original Japanese, negative sense) need not apply
6. and you have to convince her that you will be faithful and devoted to her, despite your habits of watching other naked women who may be more beautiful than her and who are willing to performs sex acts that she would refuse.
7. and are you fair to her? Would you accept that she also look at other guys who are taller, more handsome, more muscular and richer than you? Can you accept that she watch porn with black guys who has a penis twice your size?

It's totally unfair to yourself and the woman to ever have a divorce over porn. Either you convince her to accept your (bad) habit, or you give up porn for the love of her. Either reach an agreement with her or don't marry this woman, simple as that. A couple don't get divorce over pron, they get divorce over dishonesty and/or lack of compromise and sacrifice.

For that matter, you ought to figure out a lot of ground rules in the bed before you come close to marriage. Would she swallow your sperm? Would she spit it out and play with it like in JAV? Would she lick your cock after you ejaculate in her pussy? Would she do anal? Does she want a shower before or after sex? Does she want you to shower before or after sex? Does she like it in the morning or night? If you wake up with a hard on while she's still asleep, would she let you wake her up and fuck her? Actually you may find that if a woman can satisfy all your hentai needs, it might turn out you are the one who fail to perform with the satisfactory intensity and frequency. What if you find a wife who let you watch all the JAV you want but keeps a massive dildo running on 3 D-cell batteries next to the bed?
 
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