So the madness continues. I'm sitting herewatching the result (typing on my iPhone) of my most recent endeavour:
picked up fujifilm DVDs this time, burn diagnostic on pc was good, put it in the player and hopes sank through the floor: the player groAned, made spinning noises, and took about 30 seconds to decide to play. It started good, and then I decided to challene the menu navigation and started a scene, then went to main menu, then went to another scene, etc. Eventually it sod not like that at all and crapper out. I restarted the DVD player again and decided to do some unrelated prep work that required about 50% of my attention. So, no glitching where I expect after watching straight through and I navigated only by prompting next track and no issues after 25 minutes like this. This is not a huge inconvenience since the DVD contains only 5 whole tracks.
Not perfect, but so far the most acceptible.
FYI burned with Nero and I extracted the files and manually pur them into DVD disc project mode with the above mentioned dl DVD+r disc.
For now, I am done. Though I feel uneasy saying that: not finished playback yet...
anyway, ..... I should write a book shouldn't I?