More cushion for the pushing! Is bigger better?
For those of you who are "down" with having a chubby girlfriend, I give you mad props (respect). I find myself helplessly attracted to girls with chubby cheeks . It just happens to be that those girls are also quite chubby in stature. (FYI: I'm not a chubby chaser who finds chubby women exclusively to be attractive, I just find certain features appealing. Like big breasts (who doesn't?) big curvy butts, and chubby cheeks, to be attractive. I've found those features on skinnier women too.
Maybe that's why I'm so drawn to Japanese culture in general; because cuteness is an aphrodisiac (turn on)
Here is an example of a girl I'm talking about:
http://dl0046.dmm.co.jp/bb/down/photo/houman014/houman014jp-002.jpg
If you're curious about the picture, you can keep track of its search progress here in this thread I made: http://www.akiba-online.com/forum/showthread.php?p=1356411#post1356411
So here's today's question: Is bigger really better?
In Japan, talk shows and everyday TV media have pretty dolled up models promoting themselves and businesses. Proliferating common myths such as weight loss via drinking green tea, and not eating before going to sleep. For those who have worked with professional fitness trainers, you know the above two statements are overrated and not the holistic solution to weight loss.
Here's the real paradox. On the other hand, you see news media and talk shows also finding ways to gain bust size with silly myths such as drinking fresh papaya milk and other un-holistic methods. There are also many different kinds of exercise that cater to accentuating the curve of the hips so that they become more meaty and attractive.
So this begs the question, Why is it that women everywhere are aspiring to increasing the size of their bust and bum but at the same time, wanting to slim down their waist size other parts of their bodies in general? Why are big breasts and bums attractive but big waist and chubby body are not? Why is it an aspiration for women to pursue bigger sizes of certain parts of the body but it's an abomination for them to have a bigger size overall?
Wouldn't it be out of proportion if you see a skinny supermodel with huge boobs,butts, lips (by injecting botox/poison)? Doesn't that seem like the work of plastic surgery? Wouldn't it be better if she was just plump everywhere and just naturally like so?
From an Asian parent's perspective, it's simple. It's not healthy to be fat. Parents will repeat it like a mantra.
I don't want people to write a tongue-in-cheek conclusion saying; "it's not about the size that matters, it's what's inside that counts" or "it's what you're attracted to that matters" That's why I've deviated from the topic of this thread into asking a more complex and paradoxical question which I hope will garner some intelligent response.
Thanks for reading and I hope every viewer at least will participate in the poll I made!
For those of you who are "down" with having a chubby girlfriend, I give you mad props (respect). I find myself helplessly attracted to girls with chubby cheeks . It just happens to be that those girls are also quite chubby in stature. (FYI: I'm not a chubby chaser who finds chubby women exclusively to be attractive, I just find certain features appealing. Like big breasts (who doesn't?) big curvy butts, and chubby cheeks, to be attractive. I've found those features on skinnier women too.
Maybe that's why I'm so drawn to Japanese culture in general; because cuteness is an aphrodisiac (turn on)
Here is an example of a girl I'm talking about:
http://dl0046.dmm.co.jp/bb/down/photo/houman014/houman014jp-002.jpg
If you're curious about the picture, you can keep track of its search progress here in this thread I made: http://www.akiba-online.com/forum/showthread.php?p=1356411#post1356411
So here's today's question: Is bigger really better?
In Japan, talk shows and everyday TV media have pretty dolled up models promoting themselves and businesses. Proliferating common myths such as weight loss via drinking green tea, and not eating before going to sleep. For those who have worked with professional fitness trainers, you know the above two statements are overrated and not the holistic solution to weight loss.
Here's the real paradox. On the other hand, you see news media and talk shows also finding ways to gain bust size with silly myths such as drinking fresh papaya milk and other un-holistic methods. There are also many different kinds of exercise that cater to accentuating the curve of the hips so that they become more meaty and attractive.
So this begs the question, Why is it that women everywhere are aspiring to increasing the size of their bust and bum but at the same time, wanting to slim down their waist size other parts of their bodies in general? Why are big breasts and bums attractive but big waist and chubby body are not? Why is it an aspiration for women to pursue bigger sizes of certain parts of the body but it's an abomination for them to have a bigger size overall?
Wouldn't it be out of proportion if you see a skinny supermodel with huge boobs,butts, lips (by injecting botox/poison)? Doesn't that seem like the work of plastic surgery? Wouldn't it be better if she was just plump everywhere and just naturally like so?
From an Asian parent's perspective, it's simple. It's not healthy to be fat. Parents will repeat it like a mantra.
I don't want people to write a tongue-in-cheek conclusion saying; "it's not about the size that matters, it's what's inside that counts" or "it's what you're attracted to that matters" That's why I've deviated from the topic of this thread into asking a more complex and paradoxical question which I hope will garner some intelligent response.
Thanks for reading and I hope every viewer at least will participate in the poll I made!
