How Great Is the Gap of Jerking Off VS Real Sex VS Fleshlght VS Sex Dolls

[BustyNurseMomoko]

Saw this post.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskRedditAfterDark/comments/jqe8jf
As well as this one.

https://www.reddit.com/r/SexToys/comments/vmepxz
Now I actually bought these kinds of device as well as finally did a one night stand with a gal..........

However I'm curious what everyone else thinks? Gotta agree with the above Reddit links even using sex toys was a whole other dimensions forget actually banging a live woman!

 

[Taako]

I guess the only advantage these devices have is they never say no.

Seriously the stories above seems like the guys can't get a real woman. Nothing beats having foreplay with a real woman or in my case, my girlfriend just letting me slap her ass or fondle her big beautiful tits whenever I want.
Remember, it doesn't have to be sex always. Sometimes just playing is good too. And my girl, I love messing around with her lol

Update: After reading more of this, I know this story is pure horse***
In the last post, the "guy" say a real vagina doesn't feel good as good as a fleshlight ...
AND you can replicate a real vagina by putting the fleshlight in hot water?!?! HAHAHAHAH wtf

Who? What? hahaha if anyone think a pussy...good pussy can be replicate by hot water and a piece of plastic, please seek medical attention fast lol

 

[mago]

Fleshlight is a scam, stay away from that garbage.

 

[Taako]

Fleshlight is a scam, stay away from that garbage.

I've seen the product but never tried it. Honestly, I think something better could be made. It just looks uncomfortable imo.

 

[PHauc14]

the difference between sex and masturbation in any guise is unequivocally immeasurable. im guessing if youre asking you must be a virgin? nothing can compare to the pleasure of actual penetrative sexual intercourse with a female. best feeling in the world and it essentially governs our every day pursuits for that reason lol

 

[trion20001]

the difference between sex and masturbation in any guise is unequivocally immeasurable. im guessing if youre asking you must be a virgin? nothing can compare to the pleasure of actual penetrative sexual intercourse with a female. best feeling in the world and it essentially governs our every day pursuits for that reason lol

Sex and/or a good blowjob.

 

[grosseteube]

I feel this question is irrelevant, both activity are completely different,

When masturbating you pleasure yourself, and you are totally focused on your sensations.

When having sex, you will focused about what you are sharing with the other person, as in you will pay attention to the person sensation as well, and make sure she is confortable as well.
You may find it pleasurable as well but it will feel completely different from masturbation.

I think it depend from person to person, but for me I actually prefer masturbation most of the time, as it does allow me to unleash my wild imagination.
I find it nice to have a person to cuddle and break away from fapping, but once in a long term relationship I very quickly end up exploring what the person is confortable with and I don't like try to drag them out of their comfort zone.

 

[Taako]

I feel this question is irrelevant, both activity are completely different,

When masturbating you pleasure yourself, and you are totally focused on your sensations.

When having sex, you will focused about what you are sharing with the other person, as in you will pay attention to the person sensation as well, and make sure she is confortable as well.
You may find it pleasurable as well but it will feel completely different from masturbation.

I think it depend from person to person, but for me I actually prefer masturbation most of the time, as it does allow me to unleash my wild imagination.
I find it nice to have a person to cuddle and break away from fapping, but once in a long term relationship I very quickly end up exploring what the person is confortable with and I don't like try to drag them out of their comfort zone.

No offense I'm sure you like masturbation. But literally no man prefers masturbating over have sex with a real woman. No offense. It just can't be compare. You might not have found the right woman because sex with 2 people is about both, not just one person. Once you're with a woman she is more than willing to give you pleasure too. Even a hooker will do the things you might want as well.

Masturbating is just one way. Literally there's no different positions for masturbation like with a real person, man or woman. Do you realize how many sexual position there are? Seriously, the possibilities are endless because I doubt many had explore them all.

Buddy, you sound weird. You are either lonely, afraid of women, or maybe just gay(nothing wrong with that). But no way you going to get the full experience of pleasure and sex with your hands or fleshlights or any other devices. No way. I'm calling your bs card

 

[JAVinsight]

When masturbating you pleasure yourself, and you are totally focused on your sensations.

When having sex, you will focused about what you are sharing with the other person, as in you will pay attention to the person sensation as well, and make sure she is confortable as well.
You may find it pleasurable as well but it will feel completely different from masturbation.

I think it depend from person to person, but for me I actually prefer masturbation most of the time, as it does allow me to unleash my wild imagination.

you expressed the same what I want to say. thanks.
with self masturbation the person can be simply independent & choose/fix [stimulation] to any extent by himself.
But the involvement of sensory organs are minimal.

Boards don't kick back when we kick. Here I agree with Taako.

No offense. It just can't be compare. You might not have found the right woman because sex with 2 people is about both, not just one person. Once you're with a woman she is more than willing to give you pleasure too. Even a hooker will do the things you might want as well.

Masturbating is just one way. Literally there's no different positions for masturbation like with a real person, man or woman. Do you realize how many sexual position there are? Seriously, the possibilities are endless because I doubt many had explore them all.

With woman nearly all sensory mechanisms working together offers the real pleasure. the real touch. Give & take.
there is the chance of erotic play with each other which is more enjoyable.
Requires mutual coordination.

mastb/sex - can't say/compare either one is best. choice differs from person to person as they like.
But both are natural.

 

[Taako]

you expressed the same what I want to say. thanks.
with self masturbation the person can be simply independent & choose/fix [stimulation] to any extent by himself.
But the involvement of sensory organs are minimal.

Boards don't kick back when we kick. Here I agree with Taako.


With woman nearly all sensory mechanisms working together offers the real pleasure. the real touch. Give & take.
there is the chance of erotic play with each other which is more enjoyable.
Requires mutual coordination.

mastb/sex - can't say/compare either one is best. choice differs from person to person as they like.
But both are natural.

Anyone who rather choose a device/their hands over a real woman is simply nuts.
And I mean that not in a negative way, just common sense .

What masturbation does in 1, sex does 100X better. You can get your girl to jerk you off and talk dirty to you lol
Ever have whip creme and eat it off a girl? Or raise her ass and f*** her silly? Have your girl wear her sexy bikini around the house, while cooking dinner. And cupping a feel?
Masturbation not doing that. These are just some of the things I've done and a lot more.

Masturbation is ok, but there's no comparison, not even close lol

And yes, JAVinsight, boards don't hit back

 

[boy]

I disagree with most of your sentiments. I've jerked off (obviously), and I've had 2 different fleshlight type toys (not the fleshlight brand though).

I'm a married man and before marriage had girlfriends, had a few fuck buddies and casual sex partners. I've had all types of women. In my experience a fleshlight was far too stimulating for my penis. I prefer a woman because as far as the feeling, it was middle ground. The fleshlight was too much, it was incredible the first time I used it but not something I want all the time, whereas jerking off is next to no feeling at all. A woman was right in the middle as far as feeling, and not to forget the added bonus of their being an actual woman there who is soft and grabbable and responds to your actions.

So TLDR, I may prefer a woman for the overall experience but the fleshlight did in fact physically feel better on my penis.

 

[Taako]

I may prefer a woman for the overall experience but the fleshlight did in fact physically feel better on my penis.

If a plastic device feels better for you than good... but nothing will ever compare to a real woman.

 

[JAVinsight]

I disagree with most of your sentiments. I've jerked off (obviously), and I've had 2 different fleshlight type toys (not the fleshlight brand though).

I'm a married man and before marriage had girlfriends, had a few fuck buddies and casual sex partners. I've had all types of women. In my experience a fleshlight was far too stimulating for my penis. I prefer a woman because as far as the feeling, it was middle ground. The fleshlight was too much, it was incredible the first time I used it but not something I want all the time, whereas jerking off is next to no feeling at all. A woman was right in the middle as far as feeling, and not to forget the added bonus of their being an actual woman there who is soft and grabbable and responds to your actions.

So TLDR, I may prefer a woman for the overall experience but the fleshlight did in fact physically feel better on my penis.

sentiments? not at all. its about emotional experience.
you precisely measured with sex & jerk off & flesh light, & you conclude, later one best.
yes, it can be. you deserved to say that.

But for me,
My hands are ready, feels good from the very start, can grip as much as I want, variations from handpalm and fingers,
anything will be okay for lube & warm saliva is always there. it will be mind blowing until the end. No more intrusion of adjustments.
Afterward, cleaning the hand is usual.
For me the device is not upto mark . My penis feel safe & more stimulated with hand jerk & it's my best.

Still, I can't cut stop by just the mind/penis connection alone, unless its just a bodily experience.
In where 'sex with woman' mess with the mind in different way.

And I could say,
Nothing compares to the real soft, warm-wet, smooth, welcoming opening between the legs of a woman.
with whom actions & reactions, intensifies the penetration & pleasure.
& penis in pussy is well stimulated by Additional Senses, which leads to Highly emotional experience.
the end makes me to say 'sex with woman' is best.
So, that's why I can't compare/say either one is best. Both can be best in different ways. & am good at both.
Simply say. Toys-dolls(or) real woman, the best depends on user experience.

 

[Taako]

sentiments? not at all. its about emotional experience.
you precisely measured with sex & jerk off & flesh light, & you conclude, later one best.
yes, it can be. you deserved to say that.

But for me,
My hands are ready, feels good from the very start, can grip as much as I want, variations from handpalm and fingers,
anything will be okay for lube & warm saliva is always there. it will be mind blowing until the end. No more intrusion of adjustments.
Afterward, cleaning the hand is usual.
For me the device is not upto mark . My penis feel safe & more stimulated with hand jerk & it's my best.

Still, I can't cut stop by just the mind/penis connection alone, unless its just a bodily experience.
In where 'sex with woman' mess with the mind in different way.

And I could say,
Nothing compares to the real soft, warm-wet, smooth, welcoming opening between the legs of a woman.
with whom actions & reactions, intensifies the penetration & pleasure.
& penis in pussy is well stimulated by Additional Senses, which leads to Highly emotional experience.
the end makes me to say 'sex with woman' is best.
So, that's why I can't compare/say either one is best. Both can be best in different ways. & am good at both.
Simply say. Toys-dolls(or) real woman, the best depends on user experience.

Well spoken.
I will always take a hot woman over plastic or hands.
And I will take my hand over plastic.
I haven't tried the doll but those seems like an investment.
So real woman, hands, and...that's it for me...no plastic. But every one different.

 

[PHauc14]

Without being judgemental... its a simple fact, really... if you think masturbatory activities or sex dolls or fleshlights or whatever are better than real sex... You have either had really terrible sex, never had sex at all, or have some sort of negative relationship with masturbation so much so that it is has impacted you enough neurologically to the point that you have temporarily lost the ability to enjoy real sex.

Masturbation rewires your brain and can damage your sex drive and the way you think and feel about sex v masturbation. Creating voyeuristic tendencies that overtake the normal preferences to engage in sex.

The people who prefer masturbation i feel are suffering from these things.

Sex is and always will be superior. Bad sex is different yet it probably is still a better sensation that your hand or a fleshlight.
Ive never tried a fleshlight or sex doll so i cant say for sure. But nothing can replicate that feeling of penetrative sex with a wet and ready sexy woman.

People the world over are obsessed with it and pay for it and porn is centered around it. If masturbation or sex dolls or fleshlights were anywhere near similar... it would be revolutionary. But it isnt, because they are not.

No substitute for the real thing.

 

[Taako]

Without being judgemental... its a simple fact, really... if you think masturbatory activities or sex dolls or fleshlights or whatever are better than real sex... You have either had really terrible sex, never had sex at all, or have some sort of negative relationship with masturbation so much so that it is has impacted you enough neurologically to the point that you have temporarily lost the ability to enjoy real sex.

I seriously think it's possible to rewire our brains into accepting things that simply does more damage than good.

Usually I can tell a lie. They will start with... I'm marry or have a girlfriend but...
Then comes the ridiculousness to justify something weird lol

As you say... If you're married, have a girlfriend/boyfriend, and you still find masturbation/device better...
than something is wrong with your relationship.

Masturbation rewires your brain and can damage your sex drive and the way you think and feel about sex v masturbation. Creating voyeuristic tendencies that overtake the normal preferences to engage in sex.

The people who prefer masturbation i feel are suffering from these things.

Constant masturbation will lead you think it's superior when in reality it's not.

Sorta like incels who say they don't like sex but are happy... yet they're constantly mad at women because of weird reasons. And their other tendencies began to take over to a bad point.
We know what the really bad incels are like...

Sex is and always will be superior. Bad sex is different yet it probably is still a better sensation that your hand or a fleshlight.
Ive never tried a fleshlight or sex doll so i cant say for sure. But nothing can replicate that feeling of penetrative sex with a wet and ready sexy woman.

This. A hot, wet pussy and the woman you're with is into it---can't be compare.

People the world over are obsessed with it and pay for it and porn is centered around it. If masturbation or sex dolls or fleshlights were anywhere near similar... it would be revolutionary. But it isnt, because they are not.

No substitute for the real thing.

Facts!
While, devices and such do have their place in the bedroom, they are merely sex-aids, and they are label as such. They were never meant to replace real sex, just stimulation for a short period.

You stated exactly what I wanted to say, but I was being diplomatic lol

 

[JAVinsight]

I seriously think it's possible to rewire our brains into accepting things that simply does more damage than good.

Usually I can tell a lie. They will start with... I'm marry or have a girlfriend but...
Then comes the ridiculousness to justify something weird lol

As you say... If you're married, have a girlfriend/boyfriend, and you still find masturbation/device better...
than something is wrong with your relationship.

Constant masturbation will lead you think it's superior when in reality it's not.

Sorta like incels who say they don't like sex but are happy... yet they're constantly mad at women because of weird reasons. And their other tendencies began to take over to a bad point.
We know what the really bad incels are like...

This. A hot, wet pussy and the woman you're with is into it---can't be compare.

Facts!
While, devices and such do have their place in the bedroom, they are merely sex-aids, and they are label as such. They were never meant to replace real sex, just stimulation for a short period.

You stated exactly what I wanted to say, but I was being diplomatic lol

I agree. but I don't count all of them.

 

[JAVinsight]

previous posts are my own opinion. But, In search, Most of the feedback says they exhausted soon & lost the sex drive in short after using fleshlight.
can anyone say, what causes the issue? why they say that?.

 

[Taako]

previous posts are my own opinion. But, In search, Most of the feedback says they exhausted soon & lost the sex drive in short after using fleshlight.
can anyone say, what causes the issue? why they say that?.

That is interesting.
Remember not everyone are honest in their feedback.
In my opinion, i think it's what PHauc14 stated.
1. Over-dependence on devices can rewire the brain where you can't get an erection without using it.
2. Or in some cases, it could be over-stimulation.
3. The device cause blood from flowing into the penis correctly.

I remember looking at a ring. I read the warning label and it say 1. not to leave on for a certain amount of time and 2. don't put it on when erect. 4. Not for all sizes.
And they even label it as a toy and use for entertainment purposes.

This told me, they were making sure to cover all their legal base if something goes wrong.

I became nervous and decided not to buy it. I never had an erection problem and I know porn actors uses them, but I don't need it and not using anything that could damage me

 

[JAVinsight]

accepted again. & from 3rd one, I understood as [device cause prevent blood from flowing into the penis correctly].
Instantly, I guessed the two. that is over-stimulation & often doing.
Everytime, over stimulation causes premature ejaculation & also, unable to continue once again. So, they feel exhausted.
In first, over stimulation is the maximum reach of pleasure, marked by the brain. [so, they say it is best] & often trying to attain the same, they remarkably put the pressure on penis [start to damage]. After some time, tired & bored with repeated experience (or) lower. they lose the interest.
correct me if I am wrong.
I am having healthy time space between my sex & jerkoffs. so, not faced such issues.
A cock ring!!! that, I am not even tried for once, & But I am aware, it's serious one.
& Oh, ya, nothing can replicate the women pussy.