I am attracted to beautiful young men. Is it good or bad?

[ane-san]

something must be wrong!

Doesn`t need to be. I don`t understand why should for girls being attracted to other girls being normal, and for guys being attracted to other guys being....homo stuff. At least guys are always honest with such stuff. If one is attracted to the other for simply being beautiful, it is normal. One should care if they acknowledge the other being as person or merely an object of attraction. Those are two different things.

 

[voltesv]

pardon my english is not that good

im not gay but i do say some guys are good looking

i dont use the word attracted (its like magnet-- you want to go to them)---hope i making sense here.

yes i say some are good looking but i say i admire them for being good looking but still no "homo" feelings that i wanted to hug or kiss them.

for me its more i want to be like them so i can score better points by looking better in terms of grooming, physicality personality or what for the girls.


but sorry if you want to kiss, hug or what to them. dude sorry you are gay.

o yeah. im not homophobic anyway, i got some gay friends. i still hang out with them and care for them but what they're doing isnt my thing

 

[spikier]

but sorry if you want to kiss, hug or what to them. dude sorry you are gay.

earlier in this thread i said that i fantasized about kissing certain types of males.
but i didn't elaborate enough, so here's what i meant:

i want to kiss guys like adam lambert. does that make me gay? or just curious?.

also, as i said before, i am NOT sexually attracted to males. but i do want to kiss one in a romantic way; sex is not a part of romance (in my book), sooooo... hell no, not happening.

so, anyone care to take me on?: in explaining to me what this felling is.

 

[Ceewan]

earlier in this thread i said that i fantasized about kissing certain types of males.
but i didn't elaborate enough, so here's what i meant:

i want to kiss guys like adam lambert. does that make me gay? or just curious?.

also, as i said before, i am NOT sexually attracted to males. but i do want to kiss one in a romantic way; sex is not a part of romance (in my book), sooooo... hell no, not happening.

so, anyone care to take me on?: in explaining to me what this felling is.

your lonely

 

[spikier]

your lonely

if that's not sarcasm then thank you 4 your answer.
but, my response to that is, no!!.

ceewan, i live a happy life with friends & family, also, throw a cute little puppy into all that, & i have perfection; well almost perfection: i still need to be in japan.


what brought on that BASELESS conclusion? SERIOUSLY!
uzzled:

 

[voltesv]

spikey1212 if you want to kiss a certain type of male like what you said adam lambert, then you're still gay. why would a straight guy have this kind of feeling and the urge to kiss someone unless its money related. (i would only kiss adam lambert for at least 1 Million dollors!!! but still yuck for me.)

for me i also dont plan to kiss all types of females. only certain females: cute, beautiful, sexy and hot ones only. no fatties, bitches and butter face chicks. and it doesnt make me less manly.

o yeah i like some girls but not all of them im sexually attracted to.. that is why i dig girl with oozing sex appeal. as far i remember. during my innocent years of 3-4 years old, i didnt have that sexual attraction to girls (never thought of sex yet, discovered the subject sex when im 9--yes kinda late) but i do have a lot of girl crushes and that makes me very manly.

dont think im bullying you but if you want to know that're wheter you're gay or not. seek a counselor. peace

 

[Ceewan]

if that's not sarcasm then thank you 4 your answer.
but, my response to that is, no!!.

ceewan, i live a happy life with friends & family, also, throw a cute little puppy into all that, & i have perfection; well almost perfection: i still need to be in japan.


what brought on that BASELESS conclusion? SERIOUSLY!
uzzled:

Baseless?? I think not. You can say how perfect your life is if you want but if it was you wouldn't be here. If your emotional needs were fulfilled then this place would have nothing to offer you, neither would Japan. You seek alternative physical intimacies because you are not satisfied with the ones that currently exist in your life. These are logical conclusions and not baseless. This is a porn board, there are many lonely people that visit here.

Of course you could just be gay.

 

[spikier]

spikey1212 if you want to kiss a certain type of male like what you said adam lambert, then you're still gay. why would a straight guy have this kind of feeling and the urge to kiss someone unless its money related. (i would only kiss adam lambert for at least 1 Million dollors!!! but still yuck for me.)

for me i also dont plan to kiss all types of females. only certain females: cute, beautiful, sexy and hot ones only. no fatties, bitches and butter face chicks. and it doesnt make me less manly.

o yeah i like some girls but not all of them im sexually attracted to.. that is why i dig girl with oozing sex appeal. as far i remember. during my innocent years of 3-4 years old, i didnt have that sexual attraction to girls (never thought of sex yet, discovered the subject sex when im 9--yes kinda late) but i do have a lot of girl crushes and that makes me very manly.

dont think im bullying you but if you want to know that're wheter you're gay or not. seek a counselor. peace

thank you. but, if you haven't noticed i have a Lolita fetish, not the urge to *%*$ guys. i wouldn't care if i was gay, but i know for a fact that what i'm feeling is not homosexuality. because as i said: i have no SEXUAL interest in them, what so ever. don't take me off as some homophobic (i'm obviously not) guy who's lying to himself because he can't accept who he is; because that's NOT the case with me.

also, i'm not the kind of guy who would go to a counselor to seek help about something as trivial as this. i just thought that maybe there was someone who could give me a hint to what i was feeling.

but no one was able to.

its cool, i'll just have to explore a little bit more ^___^.

thanks 4 the response.

 

[spikier]

Baseless?? I think not. You can say how perfect your life is if you want but if it was you wouldn't be here. If your emotional needs were fulfilled then this place would have nothing to offer you, neither would Japan. You seek alternative physical intimacies because you are not satisfied with the ones that currently exist in your life. These are logical conclusions and not baseless. This is a porn board, there are many lonely people that visit here.

Of course you could just be gay.

so you're very lonely, ceewan?.

please, don't get your own feelings mixed with someones else's (mine).

the reason i wanna go to japan so badly, has absolutely nothing to do with anything you've just said. i wan't to visit japan because i am in love with that country. its very beautiful. its filled with talent far beyond anything here in the USA.

its up to you to figure out that talent... if you're curious.

 

[Ceewan]

so you're very lonely, ceewan?.

please, don't get your own feelings mixed with someones else's (mine).

Sometimes I am lonely but that does not detract from the truth of what I said. Personal insight is helpful in not only dealing with your own problems but understanding others problems as well. It is called empathy.

You may disagree if you wish yet I will stand by my earlier observations. Including those for your reasons to live in Japan. Trust me or not, a geographical relocation will not be the solution to your desires. I have been there and done that as well. No matter where you go, there you are.