Performance anxiety? Too much porn? Problems with penetrative sex

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Old thread but this might help someone out so here are my tips - this one works best when you've already built up some kind of routine such as having sex around 10pm everyday. Sip water roughly an hour and a half/two hours before your normally scheduled "sex-time" to the point where you can feel the urge to piss, water is good for you anyway so drink up ;) I don't know about you guys but I can get rock hard real quick when I have to piss. This should keep you going the whole time.

Second tip - massage your prostate. It's quite sensitive and will get your dick up at attention in seconds. Just rub the area under your nuts until you feel a lump, you know you've hit jackpot when it feels pleasant. This is more of an on switch when things head south and you need a second wind.
 
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genki_desu said:
Old thread but this might help someone out so here are my tips - this one works best when you've already built up some kind of routine such as having sex around 10pm everyday. Sip water roughly an hour and a half/two hours before your normally scheduled "sex-time" to the point where you can feel the urge to piss, water is good for you anyway so drink up ;) I don't know about you guys but I can get rock hard real quick when I have to piss. This should keep you going the whole time.

Second tip - massage your prostate. It's quite sensitive and will get your dick up at attention in seconds. Just rub the area under your nuts until you feel a lump, you know you've hit jackpot when it feels pleasant. This is more of an on switch when things head south and you need a second wind.
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I have the urge to ejaculate faster when I want to piss. Sometimes I will just let out the urine halfway through masturbating just to prolong my ejaculation. The drink water formula is really a good feeling but I don't want to ejaculate so fast. Hard to control.

Just discovered on how to massage my little brother last week through a video. The stretching and pulling of the balls and the shaft and the area under my nuts using pressure makes my prostrate area feel numb. Unable to feel any sensitivity during masturbation but it does make my masturbation last longer. Not sure if its a good thing. By stroking my shaft down gently with the flat inner side of both palms continuously make me felt love the ladies.

Sometimes, I am unable to get a hard on with porn.

Lastly, I don't agree with drugs. The non-erection might be a problem with some of us. Natural is the best.
Would rather prefer to wet my panties while giving oral sex to a MILF than to fuck a prostitute and release inside her after taking viagra.

Stay healthy and safe guys.
 
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Sleep before 10 p.m., get a good multivitamin, eat a bar of dark chocolate and you will be a monster
 
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My boyfriend now-husband had the same issue when we first began dating in graduate school. I talked about this with my ex-friend and roommate, a Chinese, and she advised me to tell him to keep his knees and thighs together. She had a (much) older boyfriend at the time.

It worked with my boyfriend, now husband. Even if it did not, it would not stop us from making "it" work however well we could.
 
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emiko415 said:
My boyfriend now-husband had the same issue when we first began dating in graduate school. I talked about this with my ex-friend and roommate, a Chinese, and she advised me to tell him to keep his knees and thighs together. She had a (much) older boyfriend at the time.

It worked with my boyfriend, now husband. Even if it did not, it would not stop us from making "it" work however well we could.
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Edging to hardcore porn before fucking / visualizing hardcore porn (multiple guys bukkake one girl) while penetrating helped me. Abstinence actually worse, didn't help. Porn and masturbation need to do in moderation.
 
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ero monster said:
Edging to hardcore porn before fucking / visualizing hardcore porn (multiple guys bukkake one girl) while penetrating helped me. Nofap actually worse, didn't help. Porn and fap need to do in moderation.
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emiko415 said:
Try keeping your knees tightly together so they are touching. This helped my husband many years ago.
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Emiko I have been masturbating since childhood with my knees together. Now I cannot ejaculate without doing this.
 
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hoochimama

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Just get viagra/sildenafil (ask your doc) to get over all sorts of condom/performance/anxiety/stress-related etc problems, particularly if you're going to bang someone for the first time. There's no point not to use it. Wouldn't take chances with cowpiss ghetto pills and steer clear of psychoreligious antifap babble.
 
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