No, that's everyone else who's getting some. I had to deal with a chick pulling that on me once, but then I realized that just because
she didn't want sex, it didn't necessarily mean that
I couldn't get some on the side.
On a side note, ever notice how you can look at two girls and determine that while both are hot, one looks like a sweetie (Yamato Nadeshiko, assuming they still exist) and the other looks like a b!tch (LV-toting, chew your ass out in a crowded restaurant type)? Even if both are from another country, and you can't speak the language, you can still tell-- right? When it comes to reading body language and features, the girls are waaaay the hell ahead of us. C'mon, they've been perfecting the art of communication and reading feelings since they were, what? Six? Seven? Since they were playing house? What were you doing at that age? I was burning ants with my magnifying glass or playing throw-rocks-at-the-hornet-nest with the other boys.
Bottom line-- if you're a loser who thinks you're going to get by just because you're from another country, guess what? They'll still sniff you out. And by the way-- I can get away with approaching a girl on the street 99% of the time-- I just don't do it because there's enough stupid American guys in Waikiki yelling, "Hey, moshi moshi!" at every cute girl who walks by.
Oh, and don't think that dressing up in a suit and carrying business cards will work, either. Hotties in Shibuya have putting up with guys in cheap suits handing out business cards for years...