Problem in masturbating

[Muz1234]

I have this problem in masturbating, whenever I ejaculate, I seem loss interest in sex, and I'm not sure I should ejaculate or not, because I heard woman, when you have sex with them, there is term "premature ejaculation" that might happen. I also heard that this "premature ejaculation" is a frustration in sex experience. So guys, what do you think is the best way or healthy way to masturbate? Masturbate and ejaculate early, or just keep masturbating without any ejaculation.

 

[Verginello]

Have a helthy sex life, I do PE and kegel. If you are interested you can google
Edging is fine but you have to ejaculate one day.

 

[Muz1234]

Kegel, I heard that before. Is is exercise for women only?

Sometimes the depression just kicks in if I ejaculate. It is like you lose all the energy after it all been released. I wonder if it affects fertilization of my body though.

 

[Verginello]

Yes, but is an exercise for man as well. It will strong your pelvic floor muscle. It's not even time consuming. You can start with 5 minutes and do it while driving, watching tv etc..
Althought needs some focus first.
Kegel and reverse kegel, do both.
A good forum on penis exercises is PE gym.

Btw after ejaculating I think is normal not feeling aroused any more, especially if you masturbate alone.

 

[Muz1234]

Okay thanks for advice given, bro. Its just so fun fapping to Japanese chicks. I don't know why women other than Japanese are not so fascinating,

 

[Ceewan]

All guys lose interst in sex after they ejaculate....at least for a little while, lol.



Depression after masturbating....that is deep. I was just going to laugh this thread off as a joke until I read that. You shouldn't get so real here. Don't force it, masturbation isn't a competition (unless you make it one but that takes two or more players). If you are feeling it then it let blow but ejaculation is not the most important part of masturbation, it is just the final part. This is a very awkward conversation, I think I will go kegel now.

 

[Muz1234]

Depression after masturbating....that is deep. I was just going to laugh this thread off as a joke until I read that. You shouldn't get so real here. Don't force it, masturbation isn't a competition (unless you make it one but that takes two or more players). If you are feeling it then it let blow but ejaculation is not the most important part of masturbation, it is just the final part. This is a very awkward conversation, I think I will go kegel now.

Players?

Is it normal for a person like me to masturbate to only to Japanese chicks. I know I am not Japanese, but I find it surprising that my sperm only wants Japanese women.

 

[Ceewan]

Players?

Is it normal for a person like me to masturbate to only to Japanese chicks. I know I am not Japanese, but I find it surprising that my sperm only wants Japanese women.

Never heard of a "circle jerk"?



Nothing is normal and everything is. We are a complicated species. Some people get a hard-on for farm animals. You may have a say in what actions you take or don't but there are some things in life we have no control over. It is what it is, don't fret over it.

 

[TravelingWind]

Losing an interest in sex after ejaculation is quite normal as your body presumes that you have already fulfilled it's biological imperative ,So don't stress out too much about it.

Shifting gears to the depression that's also quite normal in men due to preconceived outside notions or opinions (take your pick) that masturbating is somehow pathetic and that having sex with a woman every time you have an urge is not only manly but that you're a loser for not having one to satisfy you. This is a pile of bullshit ,EVERYONE and i mean EVERYONE masturbates ,it's a natural inclination and there's nothing wrong with unleashing a few Kamehamehas every now and then. and i know what you're going through as someone who has felt the same way ,ESPECIALLY when it came to porn preferences but no matter what your kink is ,you're good we're all alittle freaky underneath it all so do you, stop trying to rationalize it to other people's perceptions (unless it's something absolutely AWFUL and harms someone else).

Lastly ,I find the best way to masturbate now is to use my fleshlight ,it feels like a vagina and i can do it hands free

 

[Onizukabr]

As long as is consentual and it doesn't disturb you, go faping.
At last you know your having sex with someone that loves you

 

[bigloser0]

would not say masturbation is healthy. but once in a while is fine. everyone wants a release sometimes. If you want to have good sex with your gf or wife, do not masturbate for at least 2 weeks. During these two weeks, do lots of exercise, drink lots of water and eat fruits. Your orgasmic release with your gf/wife will be heavenly. the real art of masturbation is to masturbate without ejaculation. During masturbation and when most of your sperms have filled the head of your penis and are ready to see the real world. Stop whatever you are doing. Hold your penis muscles (whatever you call that) tightly and don't allow them to come out. Practise this again and stop before the point of no return again and again. And you will be able to hold ejaculation longer. It is perfectly fine if you still release some semen but did not reach orgasm. This means that you did not lose interest in sex yet and can still masturbate after a short cooling period.

 

[bigloser0]

Players?

Is it normal for a person like me to masturbate to only to Japanese chicks. I know I am not Japanese, but I find it surprising that my sperm only wants Japanese women.

That means you prefer japanese chicks more than any chicks. This is normal. Different people have different preference.

 

[bigloser0]

or maybe you might want to go for some prostrate massage to strengthen your muscles around the penis to delay ejaculation.

 

[bigloser0]

try to masturbate without ejaculation. when you reach the point that you are about to ejaculate, stop masturbating and squeeze your penis muscles to prevent the semen from coming out. Until you have discovered that you have seized the orgasm being reached, you may stop holding the squeeze. In most cases, semen will flow out gently from your penis. For the first round, the ejaculation is quite a bit. this is normal. this means you have achieved ejaculation without orgasm. I would prefer to achieve this all the time. Damn powerful! And you can go for another round or two and play with your penis with the semen as lubricant. the feeling is sensational. So that you can save money from using lubricant.

After orgasm, males will usually need at least 24 hours to recover and most sleep immediately after that. If you reached orgasm continuously (NOT RECOMMENDED if you are not young, harm your body in the long run), your recovery time will be longer, 48 hours or more. For ejaculation without orgasm, you will not feel so tired as compared to reaching orgasm.

The best is wet dream. Wet dream is a state of known orgasm while asleep that has ejaculation. And you will not feel tired from it. But it will make a mess of your bed. Wet dreams are the hardest to achieve since your brain needs to think of someone that is so sexually arousing you that your resting mind can't stop thinking of her. And you must have a lot of sperm in your sperm duct(not masturbate for a very long time) to achieve this.

Good health and good luck.

 

[mp413]

Or, you could mix it up a bit. If the gf/wife is tired/not in the mood, you could get her to lie there while you masturbate over her tits/face/ass etc. It can be kinda kinky, especially if she joins in and encourages you along. If she doesn't want a faceload she might even let you finish off inside her mouth.

 

[Muz1234]

Do girls like if I ejaculate early?

 

[bigloser0]

Do girls like if I ejaculate early?

You have to check with the girl you are going to make love wi

If you are referring to prositutues, my guess is yes.
If you are referring to your girlfriend, wife, mistress, fling, based on my little knowledge, should be no.
Because girls are not aroused so quickly and they need more time to reach orgasm compared to males.
If you shoot early, that means the penetration time is shorter and they might not have reached any heights yet.

Try and train to prolong your ejaculation.
Can be done.
Good luck.

 

[mp413]

Do girls like if I ejaculate early?

Sometimes! If a gf/ wife knows youre super horny but she’s not in the mood at all, she’s just waiting for you to finish.
I don’t like it if she’s lying there looking like she’s not into it while I give her body a hard time, so if I see that’s happening nowadays I let her lie back and relax while I jerk myself off over her face or tits. It’s kinda kinky!

 

[bigloser0]

Sometimes! If a gf/ wife knows youre super horny but she’s not in the mood at all, she’s just waiting for you to finish.
I don’t like it if she’s lying there looking like she’s not into it while I give her body a hard time, so if I see that’s happening nowadays I let her lie back and relax while I jerk myself off over her face or tits. It’s kinda kinky!

you're a good bf/husband.

 

[mp413]

you're a good bf/husband.

It’s not romantic, but it’s a bit of fun!