I would recommend you don't, it is out of the question, she will turn you down on the spot. You can meet a girl, become her best friend and when you to end up falling in love, its the best thing that ever happened to you both. However, with love comes suffering and when you loose her after a break-up, she will never be your friend the same way or may not even be friends with you at all. Relationships destroy friendship completely, for those of us who get into relationships, we have to be aware that once we loose the one we love, we also lost her a friend.
Trust me, its better not to subject your heart to that kind of pain, you could ruin your friendship with her.
I am still trying to move on from my last relationship break-up, which feels like 911, you look into the past and only see tremendous damage and infamy and it could take you months or even years to move on and open your heart to someone again. But this is good, it makes you stronger in the end.
I operate on these rules now,
1. GOD --- have faith and he will open the doors for you
2. YOU --- with out, there is nothing, take care yourself, respect yourself.
3. FUTURE --- your future is important, if you don't have one, #2 doesn't even apply because you are nothing.
4. FAMILY --- your family will always be there, even if you fail. your family has their own agenda they need to follow and you shouldn't become a burden to them. don't rely purely on them to invest in your future, they may be too busy following their own set of rules.
5. SIGNIFICANT OTHERS --- a girlfriend or friends are #5. it doesn't matter how much you love your girlfreind, she can come and then she can go but you remain the same.
These rules are very important and function as a chain, you must focus on them in the order in which they are displayed otherwise, again, you become nothing......if you focused too much on #5, youd loose 4,3 and 2 ......not 1 because 1 will always be with you to guide you again to reconnect with 2,3 & 4.
It works the same way for the rest of the rules, if you focus too much on yourself, you loose everything bellow you. YOu must learn to transition from one rule to the other and have goals planned out for them.
Follow them and you will never have problems with your life.......I have a set of rules for relationships as well but I'm not going to post them, my post is already near the edges of being considered "spam" for going off topic a bit here.
