More just like a vent on her situation, and she still lives in Japan, The talk about going back to Rockza pretty much confirms that, and this isn't the first time she's tweeted in english, she has done it quite a bit
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More just like a vent on her situation, and she still lives in Japan, The talk about going back to Rockza pretty much confirms that, and this isn't the first time she's tweeted in english, she has done it quite a bit
I'm curious about "He had an affair with A Japanese Lady", why mention "Japanese" (other than language/culture oddity), would she not divorce him if he got a Korean lady pregnant? Or white lady? I would think not (how many negatives is that?)
Is there some reason she think he would have an affair with non-Japanese lady? Maybe he's not Japanese? I wasn't following her so don't know who her husband is.
Life is very difficult for single mothers in Japan, especially with more than 1 children, esp (if) her ex-husband is not Japanese, making her children mixed blood and discriminated. And she would get very little sympathy for unfaithful husband if he's not Japanese.
Becoming a prostitute isn't a happy thing but it's not end of the world. What really worries me is she sounds like the kind who make innocent but unfortunate choice and get taken advantage of by other men.
Is there some reason she think he would have an affair with non-Japanese lady? Maybe he's not Japanese? I wasn't following her so don't know who her husband is.
Life is very difficult for single mothers in Japan, especially with more than 1 children, esp (if) her ex-husband is not Japanese, making her children mixed blood and discriminated. And she would get very little sympathy for unfaithful husband if he's not Japanese.
I would be very very surprised if she goes back to Rockza and/or AV. If things really go tough (seems likely) I think she might quietly work in soapland or delivery health or some kind of sex job. It's much easier for a mom to hide and make money one-on-one than being seen by hundreds even thousands on the cover of AV or posters of strip club.
Becoming a prostitute isn't a happy thing but it's not end of the world. What really worries me is she sounds like the kind who make innocent but unfortunate choice and get taken advantage of by other men.
Her ex-husband was in fact an American, and is the father of her four children but she has now come to the realization that interracial marriage was more difficult than she first thought it would be. She keeps referring to him as a 'dickhead and moocher'. Apparently her parents and siblings have been helping out with the children. She is still insisting that she will not return to AV or Rockza but as you say time will tell whether she can survive financially without returning to the industry in some way shape or form.
Interracial marriage like these kind doesn't fare well.
It's a typical "I'm not racist but..."-statement. That thing about only a low percentage of black guys being good partners is pure bullshit.
Actually I started a post about interracial marriage. But too lazy to finish nor to defend against the predictable blow back. That's before I knew her ex is black.
The reality is interracial marriages fail with a significant higher rate than same-race marriage. Let's not blame either sexes or any particular colors. I think everyone (especially Japanese woman) should already know it entering into a marriage. If not, she's either stupid or doesn't care.
Love and passion (or even a partner of any kind) is one thing. But sticking with a marriage for 10, 20, 50 years is a whole different thing. Whatever Hallmark cards and epic love poems say, love is difficult to overcome any and every obstacle a couple/family faces over (half) a lifetime. Take this case a man marry a Japanese woman have several kids (very expensive) in Japan. So they are raised as Japanese I assume. So for one thing the kids faces discrimination which adds pressure and stress to the parents. Two, the man look at them and they don't feel like his kids, being nothing like the childhood that he himself remembers. It's too tempting for the man to just up and disappears and abandon his responsibility as father. It's not a black or white or yellow thing. Sad to admit it, our gender are programmed not to care that much about our offsprings.
Anyway, we don't know everything in their family, we shouldn't judge too harshly to anyone. But she's a rebellious type (otherwise wouldn't date/marry/have kids with a gaijin) and she is facing the consequence now. Hopefully she can come out OK. As I said, I still predict she will work in some "service" industry. But hopefully she and her kids will be alright. Hey maybe she will make up with the ex too. You know Japanese wives are used to dealing with cheating (Japanese) husbands. Unlike Western family values, extramarital sex isn't a deal-breaker to Japanese husband and wife. The more serious issue is kids, if there's an extramarital baby... which he does...
Oh shit.
The reality is interracial marriages fail with a significant higher rate than same-race marriage. Let's not blame either sexes or any particular colors. I think everyone (especially Japanese woman) should already know it entering into a marriage. If not, she's either stupid or doesn't care.
Love and passion (or even a partner of any kind) is one thing. But sticking with a marriage for 10, 20, 50 years is a whole different thing. Whatever Hallmark cards and epic love poems say, love is difficult to overcome any and every obstacle a couple/family faces over (half) a lifetime. Take this case a man marry a Japanese woman have several kids (very expensive) in Japan. So they are raised as Japanese I assume. So for one thing the kids faces discrimination which adds pressure and stress to the parents. Two, the man look at them and they don't feel like his kids, being nothing like the childhood that he himself remembers. It's too tempting for the man to just up and disappears and abandon his responsibility as father. It's not a black or white or yellow thing. Sad to admit it, our gender are programmed not to care that much about our offsprings.
Anyway, we don't know everything in their family, we shouldn't judge too harshly to anyone. But she's a rebellious type (otherwise wouldn't date/marry/have kids with a gaijin) and she is facing the consequence now. Hopefully she can come out OK. As I said, I still predict she will work in some "service" industry. But hopefully she and her kids will be alright. Hey maybe she will make up with the ex too. You know Japanese wives are used to dealing with cheating (Japanese) husbands. Unlike Western family values, extramarital sex isn't a deal-breaker to Japanese husband and wife. The more serious issue is kids, if there's an extramarital baby... which he does...
Oh shit.
One thing she mentioned in her Japanese tweets that she didn't mention in her English tweets: She was doing porn and stripping not because she loves sex, but because her shitty husband was unemployed and she had to feed her four children (yes, it's four children, not one 4-year-old). Man, talk about paying the price for bad decisions. It's heart-breaking, but she seems to be doing everything she can for her children, and she's very much aware of the fact that her kids will face racism. But fortunately there are way more mixed race children and adults in Japan than there were when I first came here thirty-plus years ago, and these days I see children who obviously have one Black parent playing happily with other Japanese children. I would be more worried that the parents of other children might gossip about their mother's work in the sex industry. But the fathers of other kids who might recognize Sakura probably never see the parents of their children's friends anyway, so maybe she'll be lucky and no one will find out. I also hope she can overcome her apparent feelings of shame about her work. Sex work is still work. It's legal and it puts food on the table and should be respected.
BTW, I've lived in Japan long enough to see cases where the unemployed, deadbeat, philandering dad was a white man. But in those cases, the reaction is "Yeah, that guy's a loser," but when the father is Black (or any non-white foreigner), suddenly the reaction becomes "Black men are losers." Fuck that racist shit to hell and back. Shitty men are shitty men (and shitty women are shitty women). There might be sociological or economic reasons why certain categories of men statistically are more likely to end up as losers, but ultimately every individual is responsible for his own (or her own) choices. You don't need to resort to racist generalizations to say, "Yeah, that's one shitty dude there. Hope he burns in hell."
I have also lived in Japan long enough to know that there are HUGE numbers of white men who come here and treat Japanese women like "fuck toys." You have to be deluding yourself to think that Black men do that more than other men do. One my best best American friends in Japan is a Black man who has a respectable job and is happily married to a Japanese woman and they are both excellent parents to their biracial son. On the other hand, I can think of several Japanese women I know personally who are married to white men who are basically useless.
BTW, I've lived in Japan long enough to see cases where the unemployed, deadbeat, philandering dad was a white man. But in those cases, the reaction is "Yeah, that guy's a loser," but when the father is Black (or any non-white foreigner), suddenly the reaction becomes "Black men are losers." Fuck that racist shit to hell and back. Shitty men are shitty men (and shitty women are shitty women). There might be sociological or economic reasons why certain categories of men statistically are more likely to end up as losers, but ultimately every individual is responsible for his own (or her own) choices. You don't need to resort to racist generalizations to say, "Yeah, that's one shitty dude there. Hope he burns in hell."
I have also lived in Japan long enough to know that there are HUGE numbers of white men who come here and treat Japanese women like "fuck toys." You have to be deluding yourself to think that Black men do that more than other men do. One my best best American friends in Japan is a Black man who has a respectable job and is happily married to a Japanese woman and they are both excellent parents to their biracial son. On the other hand, I can think of several Japanese women I know personally who are married to white men who are basically useless.
now i'm a happy fella
i'm married to the fortune teller
we're as happy as we can be
(and i get my fortune told for free)
-- a toussaint 1962
I was just watching one of her SoD releases today.
There really hasn't been another performer like her, with such an overwhelming cuteness and innocence.
Glad to see she's moving on, although the fact that she seems to remember her days in the industry with regret saddens me a bit.
There really hasn't been another performer like her, with such an overwhelming cuteness and innocence.
Glad to see she's moving on, although the fact that she seems to remember her days in the industry with regret saddens me a bit.
Sooo sometime between the last comment here and today, her Twitter was deleted.
anyone knows what has she been up to?
I hope her kids are doing alright under her marriage statuss
I hope her kids are doing alright under her marriage statuss
Does anyone know why she deleted her Twitter
account ? Or if she has a new twitter account . Or any way to contact her , wanted to learn what shes been up to