That kinda happens in a discussion, but I apologize if you are offended by my interpretation.
Oh, you don't have to worry about offending me, I know that people around here are cool - in fact, that's why I stuck around, honestly, because I originally didn't plan to. And sure, we get the occasional jerk (no pun intended
), but I know you're not one of them! So no, I'm not offended at all, I'm just saying that that's not what I wrote or meant - granted, I admittedly dislike porn like that very much, but, again, like I said in this topic (and on this forum many times), to each his own, and, again, I do hope that people like that, as you put it, "resort to living out their fantasies in JAV".
"BUT as far as showing Japanese men that they don't have to be a base animal, thats who they are" - I think we shouldn't generalise like that, but I agree that there is truth in what you wrote. But then again, there is also the M man, and one of my main points is that I'd like to see a male "character" that falls between the two much more often, and more romantic love-making (because that would be my thing). Let me quote one of the articles that Jugulear posted:
"In a study of behaviors in popular porn, nearly 90% of 304 random scenes contained physical aggression toward women, who nearly always responded neutrally or with pleasure. More insidiously, women would sometimes beg their partners to stop, then acquiesce and begin to enjoy the activity, regardless of how painful or debasing."
This is the very reason that I switched to JAV and it's a bummer that I rarely find exactly what I'm looking for, but still, it's not that bad in JAV as it is in western porn (besides, as long as I can watch some Cyndi Wang MVs I'll be fine
).
Also, in my previous comment I said that "Nowhere did I write that women in general prefer that kind of porn as I have no idea [what they prefer]" , but then I remembered a cool article about pornhub's 2015 statistics based on which I can say that they like lesbian scenes and getting eaten out. Click
here to read the whole thing!