Size....

we men have our pride... it is on all the time, everywhere we do and sleep with women... seeing them reach their climax shows that we perform well in bed including our dick sizes dont you agree?
 
how am i to measure, from which point to which exactly...
Most medical references to average male penile length rely on measurements taken as follows:
1) a fully erect penis

2) measured from the anatomical base of the penis (which may, in moderately to excessively obese men, require that they press the ruler/measuring tape into their pudgy fat fold) to the terminus of the glans (i.e. the very tip).

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size#Studies_on_penis_size has plenty of interesting facts and data on this topic.
 
Quoth the wiki, "Several scientific studies have been performed on the erect length of the adult penis. Studies which have relied on self-measurement, including those from Internet surveys, consistently reported a higher average length than those which used medical or scientific methods to obtain measurements."
 
I put my dick againt my hand, then I measured my hand... nothing scentific... but I guess its bigger than 7 if we are counting from the base... I'm kinda big(body-wise).
 
I don't have one of my own (LOL) but I think the most important factor is confidence. If you can rock with what you've got, that's all that should matter! :D
 
Western porn gives the message that girls love big dicks. Judging from this thread, that is not always true. Western porn also gives the message that big tits are always better, which isn't true at all. I like all kinds of boobs as long as they are real and well shaped. Relatively small boobs can be just as sexy as large boobs.
 
Yes, it 's just 7cm but it's large like a cucumber :perfectplan:


but, jigenbakuda, where are you from ?

I'm from jacksonville florida in the USA.


@gizmogal

Your words are really encouraging for guys, keep it up. Just a bit of female presence saying you just need confidence is really important, imo!:bow-pray:
 
hoho... now i hv more confident abt my dick after reading this thread. thanx guyz. i'm an asian, malay specifically. so as u all know asian male penis' size isn't that big. and mine specifically is quite an 'asian' one in terms of dat although i never really measure it bcoz i think it's embarrasing to measure it. haha. after reading this thread as well, i'm more confident to hv sex with my girlfren after we're married. not now of course. bcoz we don't believe in sex b4 marriage. although i hv to admit it's really hard to resist. haha. but good thing my girlfren is steadfast on dis. if not we'd be doing it already for so many times. haha.
 
thank you very much for this thread i really enjoyed it especially the posts of prophet320 they were really hot , it was very instructive , i just wanted to know if prophet320 is a nihonjin from japan because i would love to add her in my contacts besides that i didn't get enough info about the ben wa balls please share some posts about it i'm really teased about that:please:
:bye:

Yo!

No need to call me sensei :flattered:
I'm just a girl that loves sex and to experiment new things... :goodboy:
I'm not Japanese unfirtunately, :cry: I'm just a plain European girl that loves to play dirty :evillaugh:

Thanks for aying my posts were hot and instructive, glad to see that I was able to shed some light into the minds of some men!

Cheers
 
Yo!

The size is not important believe it!! What really matters to a girl is what tricks you can pull with it! I'm a girl so I know what I'm talking about, some times men with good packages are horribles fuck buddies, they think that cause they are huge they're gods or something!!!

Another thing, guys with smaller penis are luckier than big boys. It's easier for a girl to entertain a smaller boy, p.e., anal or oral sex is easier and girls will do them with you more often... :nosebleed:
Most of times, ripping a pussy apart with an huge penis is not the answer, the tricks are the most important boys, remember that!!! And you'll be rewarded! :bingo:

BTW Euchale, a pussy may stretch but after a while it'll go back to normal. The only thing that can make a pussy stretch on a permanent basis are babies coming through there or fisting!!! Ever tried anal, the same that happens with a pussy, happens with the ass. :cool:

Cheers

Hi Prophet320,

I am a man, and I agree with your opinion. The most important thing for a man to have is the power to control their ejaculation. To gain the power needs a lot of hardwork and practice on your own, naturally :full:

Big penis hurts the girl in many cases. If the girl gives blow job to a big penis, her jaws will hurt because she has to open her mouth wide for quite long time :ban:

If a big penis penetrates her ass, it can tear apart (or maybe destroy) the perineum area so that there will be no boundary between her ass and her pussy (They become one Big Hole). You can imagine how hurt that would be and how much money that she must spend to pay a doctor to cure her :coldsweat:

That is why I love JAV, because all the actor and Beautiful young actress size look natural, not implants :lols:
 
shit, I just use the metric system when giving size. "Its 97"
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told my girlfriend that my dick was like a baby. she was dumbfounded untily she saw it, after which she almost passed out
her: "I thought it was like a baby, look at that monster"
me: "yeah like a baby, 6 lbs 9 ounces"
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anyways I imagine u all are correct, what matters to her is how you caress and hold her, and how much control you have. your methodical approach. although it is pleasurable for me to see her face expression at the border of terror and at verge of crying at certain moments(I would say I am average size, above average girth btw)
 
I'm of European descent. I've seen bigger and smaller penises than mine but I've never had any complaints from the ladies, so no worries here. In fact, a number of girls have said that I was the best lover they'd ever had! I really enjoy pleasuring girls orally. From my experience, girls really appreciate being able to reach orgasm through foreplay and I just love the look on their faces when they peak. Awesome!
 
Well, I must admit I enjoyed reading through the posts of this thread, and it was refreshing to see the many full of common sense comments about a self-perceived problem (most of the times) but, nevertheless, very real for those who happen to experience it.

After some more 15 years* of (normal paced, fast paced, straight, dead-drunk, shared etc.) sexual activity, I guess I could share my take on the matter of the human penis size image:

1. Size DOES matter -- just not in the way most of us, especially men, think it does. It should be neither overestimated, nor underestimated. Yet, it matters somewhat less than the ability to maintain erection at will... and even less than harmony and open communication.

2. Size is most of the time a matter of:
  • (self-)perception and confidence: Am I too small? Is she telling the truth when she says I'm just fine? But her ex's was bigger, what will she think of me? See the trend here?
  • regional,personal culture + (mis-)information: We, Asians, aren't exactly "gifted". Blacks have it so huge! and other bullshit in the same repertoire.
  • body-fitting: "Jeez, he's tearing me apart and he thinks I enjoy it!" or "Wish he could reach deeper, at least once..." or "Fuck, she's so tight, it makes me cum in no time!" or the opposite "Damn, I could loose my cavalty escadron in here, and it took me a week to find it!"
libido, time of day, atmosphere, what you ate, how tired you are, and a hundred other ingredients thrown in the mix. Really, there are too many to count and, believe me, even the most intelligent / informed of us sometimes happen fall into this trap.

3. Taking time and measuring your penis against the recorded medical average might indeed help you in rationalizing your unfounded fears and come out into the light. Hopefully, you're light hearted too, and know how prone to error statistic sometimes may be, right? ;)

4. From direct related experince, I can confirm that the female brain is ultimately not so different than that of male's... Hard to believe but yes, most of the points above apply to normal girl/women too.

5. If you're still feeling down about your size, think about this and lighten your mood:
THERE are one hundred and ninety-three living species of monkeys and apes. One hundred and ninety-two of them are covered with hair. The exception is a naked ape self-named Homo sapiens.

This unusual and highly successful species spends a great deal of time examining his higher motives and an equal amount of time studiously ignoring his fundamental ones. He is proud that he has the biggest brain of all the primates, but attempts to conceal the fact that he also has the biggest penis, preferring to accord this honour falsely to the mighty gorilla.

He is an intensely vocal, acutely exploratory, over-crowded ape, and it is high time we examined his basic behaviour.
-- Desmond Morris, "The Naked Ape"

Reflect on that last phrase, rather than on your penis size.

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* I'm a healthy Caucasian male, in the early 30s, blessed with a great Japanese wife to share my pillow with.

[Edited for wrong paragraph position.]
 
Well said my friend, not only does this sight help me get ma freak on, it also enlightens and encourages me. Thanks akiba online *thumbs up* *tooth shine* Now to get additional encouragement from lolicon land!
 
I quite dont agree with the article posted up by a Muslim guy one of the users here. It depends on the genes passed down to us from our fathers, forefathers name it whatever.. like grandfathers.. The dick size sometimes dont matter, sometimes matters most to us especially to our women in our sexual lives. we want to be satfisfied sexually and happily, our women will want too. One of my Muslim friends has a bigger dick than mine. I was atonised but envy him as well...
 
so as u all know asian male penis' size isn't that big

I always wonder why some Asians think this? Another stereotype is that Asians are short but these days (especially in California) I've seen plenty of Asians over 6'.


I think the big dick idea has been spread mainly by American porn. If you look at Euro and Japanese porn they don't seem to focus on it (of course sometimes they have a big-dick fetish vid, but it's not as common).

Also, like many posts of mentioned, sex is about so much more than just the act of penetration.
 
I'm average, 6 inches. And trust me fellas, a giant dick is not at the top of most girls list. Some girls really do care, but a good personality makes up for it. I'm pretty lucky, my girlfriend is a 4'10 Korean. She's tiny, and Korean guys have the smallest penis on average, so I know she probably wasn't with any guys bigger than me while she was in Korea.
 
I dated a boy who was 4" erect (no joke) but its really nice for a smaller one to enter you because it actually well at least to me hits the spot nicely and can help me get off..but every girl is different
 
1s two inches of the vaginal wall is the most sensitive because it is the location of the most nerve endings.

Length into the cervix was around 6" (I think it was that). So pleasuring a partner shouldn't be impossible even if you aren't as well endowed as most. Good technique is always a plus so find out what she likes.