It's probably the biggest forum of its kind so the rules have to be enforced if the moderators don't want things to turn to chaos. It may seem unfriendly at times, but it is necessary.
This thread is only the unofficial lesbian thread so it's not a rule that you have to post it here. If you post outside, it will likely get moved here and if you post something that doesn't belong, it will be moved out without warning, but if you post it again where it doesn't belong because you see it's not there anymore, then it becomes a warning.
You often see coolkevin here because he's probably the most active moderator in this thread since he's a lesbian fan too.
1. Not sure if it's in the rules somewhere, but you should NEVER hotlink pictures from external website(DMM or any other) unless they are an image hosting website. It steals their bandwidth and they can know from where it originates so it attract unwanted attention to the forum.
2. I do not understand.
3. In the photo section, a photo set can only have one thread. If you want to post a better quality version, it has to be in the same thread. Some sections have more specific rules so you have to read the rule post(if there is one) in a section before you post there.
4. Already discussed if we are talking about the current incident.
Since there is a lot of spam on the forum, post that break the rules often get deleted instead of moved in the right section since it is much quicker to do. You can always contact the moderator who deleted the post and ask him if he can move it to the right place instead and they will likely do it. If they want to keep order, they can't spent all their time moving things around for people who don't try to change their bad habits(not that this is your case).
Hopefully google translator did a good enough job so that I could understand most of what you meant and answered it.