part of your problem might be the weather. it's spring now in much of the world. the girls have been cooped up and covered up all winter long. when the weather finally starts to get warm, the girls respond with a most astounding array of fashion. in spring, when you go outside, even the ugly girls look cute. there used to be informative lectures about this phenomenon, often entitled something like "the birds and the bees", but that's considered old-fashioned now. however, if you opt for vernal seclusion, you might look up the subject. then poke your nose out the door in about twelve weeks. by june, the bloom is off many of the roses. the girls can run around in bikinis all summer and you won't even notice.