They might not be as hot or goddess like as you imagine. Lighting, makeup, and surgery creates her beauty, so her kids won't be perfect either. There might be health concern and people you know recognize her. Most people might look for mistress or one night stand like wealthy Asian businessman in the news paying them. Av idols are package as down to earth friendly girl next door like regular idol these days. If there's any fan out there can travel to Japan and secure a longterm relationship with their idol, let me know. Most pornstars in the west date within the industry or try to fade away and it's hard with social media these days,