Can you accept an av idol or pornstar as your girlfriend?

[silent1one]

I'm not asking about wanting to use your favorite girl for a casual one night stand and kinky stuffs. theyre probably pretty normal and more reserve in their private life and not as naive happy go lucky as you see them on screen or at events with their av personas in front of the cameramen especially when they're with their family. Some av idols did mention their families support them and they in turn also financially support them back. It's still kind of awkward, but the Question is Can you get pass ignoring their past and see a future in perhaps even marrying them and have children with them if they retire or will retire for you? It's hard to accept everywhere in the world where most of your friends and families might tease/harass you, disown you, and feel like you disgrace them with some whore that may have stds and something must be wrong with you mentally.

Av veterans like shimiken that are willing to literally eat shit and get hard for some unattractive gilfs admits he tried before in secret, but can't handle "sharing". Kind of double standards for the male that doesnt get a lot ot publicity like Some av actors like the jay chou look alike got married outside and still continues to enjoy new debuts. the same with the grandpa that already probably got grandchildren and still have sex with girls like ai uehara.

Some American pornstars got married in the past and the more Well- known recent ones are Mia Malkova and Danny Mountain. Saori hara, mihiro, sora aoi, honoka, nao oikawa, etc got married to old businessmen, dj, and stuntsman. Even Maria Ozawa found love after her prime with a celebrity hunk chef and just celebrated their one year anniversary on valentines, which mean they still have standards outside of av despite they done it with all sort of jocks or freaky creeps when they're on contacts.

They're seems to be a lot of keyboard warriors obsess with certain respecting av idols or celebrities in general even though they dont know you're sympathizing them and they probably don't care about the hate themselves because it's part of the Job they accepted. Of course, it doesn't mean it's fine to harass them for our amusement either.

 

[kharo88]

Isn't this essentially the same as this thread (in which you even posted)?

 

[silent1one]

Isn't this essentially the same as this thread (in which you even posted)?

That wasn't my thread and i forgot. i was thinking if someone old or new members have some different, new, or changed opinions.

 

[silent1one]

Isn't this essentially the same as this thread (in which you even posted)?

That was more than a year ago and I was mostly contributing to the wage topic more from the later replies, so I forgot the thread was originally about this topic.

 

[Casshern2]

Isn't this essentially the same as this thread (in which you even posted)?

LOL I knew this sounded familiar

 

[Supmop]

another repost thread

my asnwer still same : as girlfriend ok no problem, as wife and mother of my children maybe no

 

[silent1one]

another repost thread

my asnwer still same : as girlfriend ok no problem, as wife and mother of my children maybe no

That's pretty much one night stand, open relationship/sex with benefits unless you don't want children yourself. Pretty much if I can't do better then I don't see why not if they're still hot and I won't be afraid to spend the rest of my life with her if she is loyal to me only. But that is if I get the chance to date an av idol of my dreams.

 

[paparoach408]

I mean, If you can differentiate love and sex then why not, If Jim Raynor can still love someone that's killed billions, and billions of people(once not by her free will, and once by her free will) then if I fall in love with someone that gets fucked for a living, I would happily accept them as a gf/future wife

 

[jwlim80]

Everything depends on what the other party is really like as a person. In another words, her TRUE self instead of her persona and what's her reason behind her going into the trade.

While I cannot comment until I know the other party outside the persona, I can truly said that a relationship depends on compromisation with give-and-take between both parties in the early parts to make things work. Don't see things going far if one or both parties are headstrong persons insisting on doing things their own ways all the time. I can picture porn divas being headstrong because they are so used to calling the shots.

 

[DavidLu714]

yes, unquestionably... but I'm also early 30's and have never had a relationship over a year, so does my opinion even count?

 

[kharo88]

I mean, If you can differentiate love and sex then why not, If Jim Raynor can still love someone that's killed billions, and billions of people(once not by her free will, and once by her free will) then if I fall in love with someone that gets fucked for a living, I would happily accept them as a gf/future wife

That's just bullshit, disregard that entire storyline after Brood War, they made the whole thing into the typical American happy ending nonsense. In my head none of that is canon.

But to not let this entire comment be off topic... sure, why not? Girls that attractive usually have a lot of sex with lots of guys anyway, the only difference is that AV stars have it on camera - and probably do some nastier stuff, but I guess you can just chalk that up to it being work. So if you're otherwise a good match, I don't see why you wouldn't - unless you work in a field in which their, uhm, infamia (no idea what's the word in English) can hurt you.

 

[Supmop]

That's pretty much one night stand, open relationship/sex with benefits unless you don't want children yourself. Pretty much if I can't do better then I don't see why not if they're still hot and I won't be afraid to spend the rest of my life with her if she is loyal to me only. But that is if I get the chance to date an av idol of my dreams.

I don't understand what & how you think, but no problem

 

[silent1one]

I dated an escort (it took almost a year to change from john to trusted friend).
We were both very much in love with each other for many years.
She is happily married and lives an A-level professional "normal" life now.
Our friendship remains one of the most treasured experiences I've had in this lifetime.

So you don't miss her now and wish you could still have that relationship or be the one to be able to accept her and marry her?

 

[silent1one]

That's just bullshit, disregard that entire storyline after Brood War, they made the whole thing into the typical American happy ending nonsense. In my head none of that is canon.

But to not let this entire comment be off topic... sure, why not? Girls that attractive usually have a lot of sex with lots of guys anyway, the only difference is that AV stars have it on camera - and probably do some nastier stuff, but I guess you can just chalk that up to it being work. So if you're otherwise a good match, I don't see why you wouldn't - unless you work in a field in which their, uhm, infamia (no idea what's the word in English) can hurt you.

Also, I don't see av actors getting that much hate too, but probably just get envied since it' a hard job, but some unappealing old guy at the short end of the stick get paid to have hardcore sex with girls that can be his granddaughter on a daily or weekly basis usually imvolving them being r**ist. No dating or be self conscious and can still be guilt free back home with their supporting family and cuddle with their real wife after the shoot or at least that's what some of them say. We know without looks or money, hot girls won't be in to you, so they're living their dream life. However, If a fan, celebrity, or a manager did it with an idol, it will cause some controversy from different sides of the news outlet as some horrible scandal.


Overall, it depends if you can accept their past of them having sex with a lot of different guys on and off camera for many years. Of course, the best is they're loyal and retire for you. It also depends if you or her are just looking for a quick one with no string attach. It's awkward when there's love involve since you need to accept her past and make introduction to each other family and friends. The feeling just hit you when you bump in to one of her "ex" or costar and start imagining things or if they're still friendly after all those years.

 

[kharo88]

It's awkward when there's love involve since you need to accept her past and make introduction to each other family and friends..

When people talk about topics like this for some reason I automatically think about this song :

The feeling just hit you when you bump in to one of her "ex" or costar and start imagining things or if they're still friendly after all those years.

I think most of us know that feeling already... At least I know that when I was walking with my gf on the street and whenever there was a guy with whom they said hi to each other while smiling, it always occured to me whether he was just a friend or if he used to be something more to her.

 

[Muten_Roshi]

if the actress is haruka kasumi or erika momotani, then sure, anytime

they're the only marry-able actresses out there , at least for me

 

[silent1one]

When people talk about topics like this for some reason I automatically think about this song :

I think most of us know that feeling already... At least I know that when I was walking with my gf on the street and whenever there was a guy with whom they said hi to each other while smiling, it always occured to me whether he was just a friend or if he used to be something more to her.

We just hope we don't see that a lot and hope they will ignore each other without giving any rude remarks. it's annoying she can count or forget about the number of partners many times more than you. Both on and off camera. Some might be exes that from before av and those that cant accept her past becayse shes not faithful or quit for them like sora aoi. some might have been one night stand from work like some old producer or famous actor. Speaking of av actors, some guys are married with kids in both Japan and av, but despite being paid less. They still get a normal supporting family while they fuck mostly hot young girls on camera like the old guy and jay Chou look alike. Prince yahshua just had a kid.
You can't control her past and most guys try to limit their girls outing with other male unless he's gay once the honeymoon phase fade. You can't be over controlling though. Didnt Mia Malkova divorce his ex because of the India scandal and she start shooting with guys again.

 

[samurai79]

No way. They could never be trusted not to fuck someone else for money.

 

[darksider59]

Girls that attractive usually have a lot of sex with lots of guys anyway, the only difference is that AV stars have it on camera - and probably do some nastier stuff, but I guess you can just chalk that up to it being work.

???? It really depends on the kind of girls you are talking about and where you get those girls. Often, when people say attractive girls, they are talking about girls in mini skirts in clubs. To me, it's more slutty than attractive. Anyway, tons of beautiful girls aren't sex maniacs that try to get a new guy every day because if they are looking for date, they are looking for a serious relationship.

if the actress is haruka kasumi or erika momotani, then sure, anytime

they're the only marry-able actresses out there , at least for me

I agree on Haruka Kasumi. Wife material for sure. I would add Kitano Nozomi, Suzumura Airi, Kato Rina, Nagasawa Azusa, Takachiho Suzu. and one of my new favorites Mitani Akari : in one movie, there is a really casual moment where I thought "wow, she's legit gf material".

 

[kharo88]

???? It really depends on the kind of girls you are talking about and where you get those girls. Often, when people say attractive girls, they are talking about girls in mini skirts in clubs. To me, it's more slutty than attractive.

I agree with the last statement but I'm speaking from experience. Even if a girl doesn't dress slutty they sleep around a lot (again, in my experience). This is what I observed even when I was back in secondary grammar school, and then university and even among my broader circle of friends. The pretty girls always had one boyfriend after the other.