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I found a japanese gf who's interested in marriage. She's 22.

I'm not ready for marriage but still i told her "in the future we can get married". So maybe i can continue a relationship with her.

Thing is.. she wants to live in japan. I don't. I want to live in america.
I'm a shy guy and to get a job in japan would be harrd. Most japanese companies that want foreigners want outgoing dudes who can talk well or be fun and outgoing for English teaching.

I speak some japanese but what does japanese help if you're not good in your own language.

What should i do? Drop her?
 
josolopSon3 said:
I found a japanese gf who's interested in marriage. She's 22.

I'm not ready for marriage but still i told her "in the future we can get married". So maybe i can continue a relationship with her.

Thing is.. she wants to live in japan. I don't. I want to live in america.
I'm a shy guy and to get a job in japan would be harrd. Most japanese companies that want foreigners want outgoing dudes who can talk well or be fun and outgoing for English teaching.

I speak some japanese but what does japanese help if you're not good in your own language.

What should i do? Drop her?
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Yea... like --YOU-- would drop a woman if you ever left your basement. That's a laugh.
 
Probably a lesbian trapped in a mans body.
 
You're cruel here :)

I moved around the world myself (from Europe to America), had a GF before I moved and got a job here, then kinda got stuck in the USA. Moving to another country is not a small thing and just watching some Animes or JAV doesn't give you the right impression.
First, you don't know if you would get along with that girl well enough to have a bsis for a marriage or so, so don't screw up your life based on a fantasy. Don't just drop it because you're afraid to either.

My advice is, although it's expensive, have some vacations together, either in the USA (don't take her to redneck country) or in Japan, preferably both alternating, chances are that after a while you break up anyway, that's how it goes with most relations and it's good when it happens before the marriage :)
If not, then you have a point to go from, but to base thoughts like you have on pure wishful thinking isn't good.

If you move to another country, chances are you regret it sooner or later. If you're young enough, you might get used to it. It's a risk and nobody can tell you how it would work out for you (or her). Judging from my experience coming from Europe to Disneyworld, I am missing a lot here, particularly serious people who are about more than just "hey how ya doing - great!" and probaby a japanese girl would do too. So before you think about turning your (or her) whole life upside down, meet her and find out if it lasts
 
fritzeflink said:
You're cruel here :)

I moved around the world myself (from Europe to America), had a GF before I moved and got a job here, then kinda got stuck in the USA. Moving to another country is not a small thing and just watching some Animes or JAV doesn't give you the right impression.
First, you don't know if you would get along with that girl well enough to have a bsis for a marriage or so, so don't screw up your life based on a fantasy. Don't just drop it because you're afraid to either.

My advice is, although it's expensive, have some vacations together, either in the USA (don't take her to redneck country) or in Japan, preferably both alternating, chances are that after a while you break up anyway, that's how it goes with most relations and it's good when it happens before the marriage :)
If not, then you have a point to go from, but to base thoughts like you have on pure wishful thinking isn't good.

If you move to another country, chances are you regret it sooner or later. If you're young enough, you might get used to it. It's a risk and nobody can tell you how it would work out for you (or her). Judging from my experience coming from Europe to Disneyworld, I am missing a lot here, particularly serious people who are about more than just "hey how ya doing - great!" and probaby a japanese girl would do too. So before you think about turning your (or her) whole life upside down, meet her and find out if it lasts
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Isn't it funny how some people actually take his posts seriously?
 
Yep you're right, was my mistake. I should just DL the porn and otherwise don't give a crap, thanks for the advice.
 
If you are that gullible, then yes, you should. Otherwise you could care and give everyone else a laugh when you make posts like the above.
 
After reading some of his posts, I can sincerely say that I hope josolopSon3 never stops posting.
 
ahahahahaha!!!!

oh god, last time i laught so hard (besides his other posts) was reading Gandob on gamefaqs
 
this thread without a pics is worthless....hehe..can u upload her pics? so i can give my suggestion^^
 
gunyu1 said:
this thread without a pics is worthless....hehe..can u upload her pics? so i can give my suggestion^^
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You missed the whole point: talking about something without proving it :XD:
 
Is Josolopson3 for real? I mean he kept on posting although he received many 'replies' from all of us...What type of person is he??
 
He could very well be for real; there are 1,733,993,741 people on the internet, although he might be a few standard deviations away from the mean of the bell curve of normalcy. It doesn't really matter if one pretends he's trolling or for real; this is the internet.
 
I wonder how Josolopson3 would feel if he knew we have a Japanese CM actress and model spending the weekend with us at the moment?
 
I live with an ex-erotic dancer, work routinely with .... 'actresses' and 'actors' and so on and so forth. However I think even just one of us (between the three - Rhinosaur, Haruto and me) have more experience in a little finger than JacksALotOn will ever know.
 
We were watching some of her work on youtube last night! I'm quite certain that those of you who live in Japan, and watch T.V or look at the odd billboard, would recognise her.
 
aquamarine said:
I live with an ex-erotic dancer, work routinely with .... 'actresses' and 'actors' and so on and so forth. However I think even just one of us (between the three - Rhinosaur, Haruto and me) have more experience in a little finger than JacksALotOn will ever know.
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While I appreciate the praise I've never had real online sex with a Japanese lesbian, so I feel inadequate.
 
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