DEEPTHROAT! Lucky Enough to Get Any?

[Casshern2]

I thought it was time for an actual adult discussion around here.

Deepthroat! I, for one, have unfortunately never experienced a true deepthroat. Sure, my girlfriend that became my wife would take me all the way in...while not fully erect, but, she can't reach all the way down to the base otherwise. She's gotten better over the years, to be sure, but, nowhere near it. But, that's okay! I can't imagine it's easy!

Plus, I'm glad I never had it before her, or I might be frustrated that she can't do it for me.

Anyone out there ever had a proper one, in the past or enjoying it now?

Anyone had it but didn't care for it?

Anyone want it but can't have it? Or, in the extreme, did you find a way to get it???

 

[PJB]

Yes, my ex could do it, but to be honest I didn't really care about it. It's not like I didn't like it, I just don't see all the fuss. After all, most of the pleasure comes from the head of the penis. And she went from never having given blowjobs to being a blowjob expert, so I was more than satisfied.. perhaps too much so.

 

[Casshern2]

Yes, my ex could do it, but to be honest I didn't really care about it. It's not like I didn't like it, I just don't see all the fuss. After all, most of the pleasure comes from the head of the penis. And she went from never having given blowjobs to being a blowjob expert, so I was more than satisfied.. perhaps too much so.

Okay, that's an interesting take, never thought about it. I mean, it looks incredible when watching, but, you're right, maybe I would think it was just okay if ever performed on me. Might seem overrated? Hmmmm...

Thanks, great reply!

 

[Casshern2]

Having only gotten this kind of deep head very rarely. "Awhile" back, a mid-30s petite Asian gal came over to the house for some play for pay. She was starting out selling real estate, so this was amateur hour for her, making some grocery money for the week. We played around for awhile, and talked a little. I recall she bought me a jade plant after our encounter, so it must have been all right.

When the time came to take care of business, I kind of remember her standing or leaning next to the bed while I forced her head all the way down and came in her mouth.

When she came up for air she said something I'll always remember.

"Now THAT was abuse."

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Good grief!

 

[barba]

three guys were sitting in a bar one day staring silently at their drinks. the guy in the middle was even-tempered, quite self-contained, minding his own business. but the guy to his right was hot under the collar, gripping his glass, barely able to maintain civility. the guy on the left was the complete opposite… overly cheerful, grinning like an idiot, occasionally even humming a tune. finally, the guy on the right can’t stand it anymore. he slams down his glass and roars out, “my goddamn wife… she only gives me deep throat once a week!”. the guy in the middle looks at him and says, “you think that’s bad? my wife only gives me deep throat once a month”. the guy on the right breaks out laughing and, after getting control of himself, says, “my wife only gives me deep throat once a year”. the other two stare blankly at him until finally one says, “so what are YOU so happy about?”. he replies, “because… tonight’s the night!!”

 

[Casshern2]

three guys were sitting in a bar one day staring silently at their drinks. the guy in the middle was even-tempered, quite self-contained, minding his own business. but the guy to his right was hot under the collar, gripping his glass, barely able to maintain civility. the guy on the left was the complete opposite… overly cheerful, grinning like an idiot, occasionally even humming a tune. finally, the guy on the right can’t stand it anymore. he slams down his glass and roars out, “my goddamn wife… she only gives me deep throat once a week!”. the guy in the middle looks at him and says, “you think that’s bad? my wife only gives me deep throat once a month”. the guy on the right breaks out laughing and, after getting control of himself, says, “my wife only gives me deep throat once a year”. the other two stare blankly at him until finally one says, “so what are YOU so happy about?”. he replies, “because… tonight’s the night!!”

HAHA!

 

[PJB]

I think the xenomorph was less frightening.

 

[Casshern2]

She tried again last night, the little trooper. It was as deep as she can ever go, it seems. Still fun, though.

 

[barba]

it's only deep hand around here.


... must remember to go outside.

 

[Casshern2]

it's only deep hand around here.


... must remember to go outside.

HAHA!!

 

[whitelily]

No. I wouldn't want to put anything in my own throat so why should she? Lets be real, It's not enjoyable in the slightest. Most women lie about liking it or wanting it to please. I wouldn't be able to get off knowing that my partner has trouble breathing or a feeling like she's choking.

I've seen DT video's before, both professional and amateur, and the girls rarely look pleased with what is happening, and that is putting it lightly.

I am not saying every woman dislikes doing it but most def do.

 

[PJB]

Well, one thing is for sure, if you have a horse cock like that guy above, she DEFINITELY won't enjoy it. Hello esophagus damage?

 

[Casshern2]

No. I wouldn't want to put anything in my own throat so why should she? Lets be real, It's not enjoyable in the slightest. Most women lie about liking it or wanting it to please. I wouldn't be able to get off knowing that my partner has trouble breathing or a feeling like she's choking.

I've seen DT video's before, both professional and amateur, and the girls rarely look pleased with what is happening, and that is putting it lightly.

I am not saying every woman dislikes doing it but most def do.

I knew a girl back in my younger years, early 20s, she had no gag reflex. She would let guys shove it down as far as they wanted, she said it did nothing for her but she liked that they liked it and it made them finish fast so they could go out or do other things. LOL. Ah...if only she and I were more than friends...

 

[Seedlovers]

It's tempting but I really can't stand to see the look of my girl doing that, it looks unpleasant. Maybe it'll be fine if it was with someone I don't really care like a hooker or something, but I never sleep with them so, I guess I'll never get any.

 

[LawinDC]

Unfortunately I haven't gotten it before. My cock isn't super long but it's so thick that most women I've been with can't go too deep. I'm awaiting the day I get a girl who can deepthroat me or be willing to do anal.

 

[Casshern2]

Unfortunately I haven't gotten it before. My cock isn't super long but it's so thick that most women I've been with can't go too deep. I'm awaiting the day I get a girl who can deepthroat me or be willing to do anal.

Ah the girth issue.

 

[ding73ding]

Joining the thread rather late...

My oral sex life had improve very much recently. So here's my take. It seems everyone's experience is different.

For a long long time, I don't care that much about BJ, for me it was a foreplay which is mostly unnecessary as far as I'm concerned. Then when I have a steady partner and opportunities for sex became nightly (and nearly all day for weekends), then it began that some times a BJ would help get the erection going. But it kinda work like this, when I'm soft, she can put it all inside comfortably, and what's comfortable for her is also pleasure for me, so I get a hard on, and when it swells in her mouth, it's less comfortable for her, and she would have difficulty keeping her teeth off my cock. I really don't like hard objected against my erect cock, so it works like she puts it when it's soft, once it gets hard, I pull out and we move on to vaginal sex (and later anal sex).

Then after a long time, for whatever reasons she wants to improve her oral skills (I gave her no pressure, and she got no pleasure from BJ), so one she learn better to keep her jaw wide open, two she learn not to suck (you heard it right, I don't enjoy cocksucking), three she learn to get more of my length into her throat. So then it became part of our sexual options, instead of just a foreplay. But still because (1) she can't tolerate sperm in her mouth (2) full length insertion is difficult (3) I can't piston-pump her throat (may cause serious injury) and (4) teeth, the result is oral is not the way we finish.

Then recently we had another evolution. She begin to finish me off with the BJ. It's not my most preferred way to orgasm. If considering only purely physical pleasure, vaginal sex either doggie or missionary is my choice. But the head game adds another variable. So whenever either of us (or both) feel nasty we would do anal sex or oral sex to the finish.

After all the evolutions and experiments. My take is that oral sex is a mental game. She gets no physical pleasure from it and still hate the taste of sperm. I enjoy it more for the nasty factor than for the actual pleasure itself. So vaginal sex is preferable for both of us.

BTW, I feel differently about it than @PJB my "pleasure point" is having my shaft squeezed or gripped which is why oral sex is never the best sensation for me. It's very hard for a girl to grip my shaft inside her mouth without biting my cock. So kissing or smoching the head is fun but it can never get me off. So deepthroat or at least nearly deepthroat is kind of necessary if we are having a BJ that's not "foreplay just enough to get me hard".

 

[Casshern2]

Wow talk about polar opposites (basically). I can easily orgasm with just oral sex. My wife has always enjoyed giving me oral sex, she loves how it feels in her mouth and likes when I pump it in. Even if I'm tired she'll gently tap my ass to get me to keep going. And sperm? She loves that, too, drinks every last drop. Different strokes for different folks, as they say. We always start things off orally, then move on to vaginal sex and if she's in the mood she'll slip me into her ass. She makes the sexiest faces and encourages me to pump faster...slower...faster...slower. Every now and then she'll take me out but usually once she puts me in she wants me to finish. When I do, 50% of the time or so she will as well. Now and then when we start orally and I get a little to excited she can tell that I already want to cum (she knows my noises) and will gently bring me to climax in her mouth, swallowing everything I can produce. Then she rubs her pussy on me until eventually it gets hard again and we go for round two.

But, is there any deepthroat in there? Only as much as she can take, even when pumping her face. I do like when she sucks on it while limp. Man, that gets me up so fast it isn't even funny.

 

[ding73ding]

Yeah when she and I were figuring out how to get me off orally, that's when I really realized men and women really don't know how to pleasure each other, and each person is really very different from each other. I mean sure I always knew the head-game is very specific. You read about fetishes like high heels, or diapers or receiving facials. So obvious that those fetishes are 100% or at least 90% mental game.

But what's interesting, extremely interesting to me is that even physical pleasure for men (also making (common) assumption that women's pleasure is more mental than men's) . Even physical pleasure for men is very very subjective. Like I read about a blowjob queen in Japan. She is supposedly very famous oral sex professional. In interview, she explained many clients want a vacuum blow job, sucking extremely hard (imagine sucking very thick milkshake, even molasses, through a straw). To me that sounds like torture. Hmm correction... I didn't realize I hated cocksucking until I had a very steady partner.

For the first hundreds of times I have sex with a particular girl, whenever she sucks me, I would at first be appreciative (rather enjoy the mental game of oral sex) but then the physical pleasure (lack thereof) takes over, I pull out and insert myself into her pussy, which is always awesome for me, and mostly pleasurable (I don't pretend I'm king of fucking) for her. It's only after a very long relation with a particular girl that we started to question the exact boundary of everything and what else we want to experiment on. Only then did I realize my cock doesn't want sucking, it wants the opposite: pressure. Once I had a prostitute whose pussy is very very tight. Holy shit, is she a virgin? Obviously not. Only after the first round and I decided to keep her for the night and in the middle of second round I ask her are you constricting your vagina the whole time? She said yes, I was very amazed. Turns out she squeezes all the cocks that enters her pussy and mostly can get a ejaculation within 3 minutes, so she can either get a lot of "work" done on a busy night or be done with it if business is light and she can either sleep or play on her phone. But after a round and a half, I said see I am not a 3 minutes guy, I am going to do this for at least 30 minutes so you can relax and let me have my fun. But she won't hear it, she mumble something about female pleasure and making my cum faster. Anyway long story short, I fucked her three times and then twice more the next night. I tried and tried and couldn't get her to relax her vagina.

That's when I had a realization about myself... my cock wants to piston fuck a tight warm moist hole, not be sucked under negative pressure. My cock wants to penetrate and push into a tight (maybe resisting) orifice. And when I cum I want to pump a huge amount of sperm into the deepest part of that orifice (that's why I feel sorry for JAV studs who has to get to orgasm under the director's command, pull out, rips off the condom and shot sperm in (cool) mid air for the camera). So deepthroat is not only necessary, the way I want to piston pump a mouth might be very dangerous to her.

Once in a while I let a girl gets me off, vaginally, orally or manually. But seems something is not quite complete, if my orgasm is made by the girl. Most of the time I have to do a around two, if not by fucking some hole (me on top), then I have to masturbate.

 

[ding73ding]

I guess I also must admit I had never had a very skillful cocksucker. I am very lucky to have tried at least once everything I want to try. Well ok an orgy is still on my bucket list... anyway distraction. I guess there's still possibility some woman out there can give me a really awesome blowjob. The kind that 10 years later I might write about on a forum.