So many excellent observations made, everyone. Thanks for making this a civil and intelligent discourse.
@Needsmoreloli The reason why someone would enjoy seeing a mature woman have sex is because humans, in general, should have a relationship with those that are of a similar maturity and interest level. This is in part why we don't approve of a sexual relationship between a 15 yr old that could legally consent and a 30 yr old, but two 15 yr olds is considered a normal teenage experience.
As I've grown older I have found older women more attractive and younger women less attractive in general. I think this is to be expected and dare I say it, this should be ideal for society. This is not to say that I and other maturing males don't find younger women attractive, but it just starts to shift a bit. I guess it might be partially due to relationships are made up of more than appearances and if you have nothing in common with someone you will naturally find them less appealing. I think everyone should be able to understand why someone would find a mature woman attractive under normal circumstances, even if they currently don't feel that attraction for the body of a woman that has had the effects of time wear away at her youthful ideal beauty.
In addition there is the fetish aspect of enjoying a mature woman that is perhaps 20 years older than your age, say a 25 yr old enjoying 45+ women. You need look no further than the popularity of the MILF genre, and that should speak for itself as to the acceptableness of such a non-controversial fetish of finding "older" women sexually attractive.
I'm about honesty and taking the conversations to their logical conclusions, good or bad. So, please bear with me if it appears I'm defending one fetish and denigrating another: things in life are not all created equal and don't' deserve to have the same level of respect. Considering the freedom of speech most countries have will apply to your fetish, it doesn't mean that one intellectual idea, or in this case fetish, will be "better" than another. It is almost a certainty that a MILF fetish, for example, is less harmful for society than a loli fetish is. Which is NOT to say that the loli fetish lover is a bad person, or should feel bad about what turns them on, etc. It is just something we all should acknowledge and be honest about.
I was just looking through today's JAV releases and saw some recent loli covers which made me think. If it were possible that 13 yr olds were mentally mature and society approved of such a thing, would there be a level of disgust a human would naturally feel towards having sex with them? I would guess that there wouldn't. If people are honest with themselves I'm certain they would have to agree with the logic I put forth. If all of the reasons for sex with minors being immoral, wrong, etc. are taken away, then the result is sex with minors is normal and expected behavior. But, it isn't politically correct to harbor an opinion like that in public; society would not approve of anyone ever making the case of such a thought experiment which is understandable, but unfortunate.
This is a complex issue that needs the input of more loli lovers to get their perspective. Most of us seem to be in the camp of "It's not rocking my boat, but if it's your thing, I'm not mad at ya" and so it's a preaching to the choir feeling I'm getting at this point. Except for Needs more loli of course. So, it feels like we are subtly ganging up on him, which isn't our intention, obviously.
On that note, I think this diversion of the thread has more or less run it's course. Thanks again for the comments and I hope this conversation has been useful or enjoyable to some degree.