Thanks @Makkdom for awesome post. Finally got me to make my omni- J-culture thread. The idea is talk about J-culture (both traditional and Western-influenced)
I wish to break it up into multiple threads but worry most will not be sustainable... sooo... let's try mega-thread for now...
SEX as (NOT) SIN: Japanese have a well deserved reputation for being polite and very strict with decorum, which is very similar to Chinese and Korean. The un-spoken aspect of that is that what happens privately/secretly is FINE, since secrets don't disrupt decorum. So far, C/J/K are still pretty similar. But J have a very unique take on sex. For C (not sure about K), anything related to sex is something deeper and more sinful than decorum. Of course for Western/Christian tradition, sex is even more strict. Sex is the original sin.
But for J, a woman's sexual history or experience isn't such a big deal. I think Japanese defines "sex" quite differently than most cultures of the world. E.g. seeing or touching of a woman body is the boundary between sex or non-sex. Some more relaxed standard would put the boundary of touching of penis or pussy. Some would say insertion of penis into any orifices, like mouth, pussy or anus. Most cultures would add hand-job too. Or how about a man masturbate in presence of woman? I think J mindset is that even with insertion of penis in pussy it may still not quite be sex, it might be just a massage. It's only sex if sperm is ejaculated into a pussy. Not even the mouth. So sex is strictly and narrowly the activity that causes pregnancy.
Yeah I know... it's a very radical idea, esp. when written out. But I think many J men and women think or feel the same to some extent. Anyway let's discuss or debate.
In according to JAV, esp. BKSP-314 officially "Family Bath" but as well call it "wet outdoor incest orgy". The father got an erection (see family bath below) so it's no big deal his wife stroke or suck his cock in front of the kids. Even it's ok his wife allow or encourage their daughters to do the same, that way the father gets "relief" of his "tension" and daughter gets a lesson/skill that she may need for future. It's even ok to ejaculate to ejaculate on her tits, on her face or even inside her mouth. No pregnancy, it's OK.
Earlier we heard many idols draw the line at internal ejaculation/creampie.
When I translate subtitles you see many JAV plots make a big deal about ejaculation in vagina.
Of course I know that JAV is fantasy, not reality. But well here I'm fooling around with the fuzzy boundary between JAV fantasy and reality.
BATH: From BKSP-314, we start with bath. Compared with the world, esp. other East Asians, Japanese love taking baths. Esp. for social bonding. Taking baths together, at least between same sex family members, and/or married couples, and/or kids before sexual maturity. E.g. father and mother and kids either boys or girls or even boys and girls, under the age, say, 9 years old. Is quite acceptable, or even GOOD, as family bonding activity. Taking baths with someone same sex in the extended family, neighbors/friends, from work place (esp. counter-parties in business negotiation), or same association (including gangs) is not just allowed but encouraged.
Esp. between men, giving and receiving physical contact and pleasure and comfort is important for bonding and trust-building and establishing/confirming power hierarchy. E.g. a business manager would seek to scrub CEO's back during a company onsen trip if he wish to be promoted to VP.
So in BKSP-314, and so many vids from SW- and HUNTA-, they just play that into sexual fantasy. Whole family all get naked and take a hot spring bath. Wife and daughters can and should give pleasure to the patriarch. Or mother, mother's friends or older sister can take shota son or kid brother to bath, and check out his growing up between the crotch.
(future episodes: lesbian love and sex work such as hostess)
