who here lives in japan and/or has been with japanese girls?

[ukon no chikara]

so i joined here recently as an AV resource figuring there'd also be a bunch of people here who live in japan too - i didn't really get into JAV or japanese girls until i moved here. seems that's not so much the case, though.

which is cool. we're all into what we're into! just wondering if anyone else's interest is based on real-life experience - i've been with a lot of japanese girls and watch AV on "off nights" (most nights, admittedly) because those are the girls that turn me on these days.

oh and if anyone wants to know about my experiences with real japanese girls, or has any questions about how to meet them etc, please do ask. nothing off-limits! i just thought some of you might be interested since it seems most people on this forum aren't in japan yet do have a particular taste for the women.

 

[desioner]

Not many of the members live here but there are a few. I'm sure that those who do live here have had intimate experiences with Japanese women.

 

[R18.com]

Yes to both questions

 

[ukon no chikara]

well hey, why not use this thread for talking about IRL stuff! nice to know i'm not alone.

i got out of a relationship recently and have been having good luck with tinder, of all things. wasn't expecting much from it here but it delivers — feel like i've been missing out.

 

[tylersailer]

Did Ukon no Chikara drink help you be ready for the one night stand? I never tried tinder, I thought it is for US or Europe. Not for Japan. But I got no guts to try it here anyway...

One question. What is your opinion about the girls who only date with the foreigners (read: white American)? A friend of mine is a white American living in Tokyo but he hates that type of girls. They only want to date with him just because he is white and speaks English. And the girls act bitchy when they hung around with him, as if they are showing the whole world that she is DATING WITH WHITE MAN.

Just curiosity. You do not need to expose your nationality or ethnicity to the internet though. Just asking a general topic.

 

[EroMura777]

I heard a friend of mine that he has a couple of friends who travel to Japan on a regular basis, basically to fuck with Japanese girls, and he told me that they wear Barcelona soccer (football) team jerseys, and they're quite successful.

 

[ukon no chikara]

Did Ukon no Chikara drink help you be ready for the one night stand? I never tried tinder, I thought it is for US or Europe. Not for Japan. But I got no guts to try it here anyway...

One question. What is your opinion about the girls who only date with the foreigners (read: white American)? A friend of mine is a white American living in Tokyo but he hates that type of girls. They only want to date with him just because he is white and speaks English. And the girls act bitchy when they hung around with him, as if they are showing the whole world that she is DATING WITH WHITE MAN.

ukon no chikara is so i feel a little better about myself in the morning.

i definitely know the kind of girl your friend means, and i don't disagree with him (though i won't say i didn't go with a few when i was newer to the country...). it is a little creepy to be fetishized like that. at the same time, their existence does mean that if you just want to get laid it is incredibly easy to do so just by walking into the hub (fake british chain pub) or any number of bad clubs in roppongi.

I heard a friend of mine that he has a couple of friends who travel to Japan on a regular basis, basically to fuck with Japanese girls, and he told me that they wear Barcelona soccer (football) team jerseys, and they're quite successful.

interesting strategy. i could see it working with a certain type of girl! (probably a more pleasant type than the one above.)

 

[AcVe09]

Im neither Japanese, nor have been intimate with a japanese girl. Vietnamese yes, but no Japanese girls. But..... i did go to college with many Jaoanese people, and currently live in a well populated area with a good percentage of people are asian/japanese.

My impression from college, was the males were very lazy, kind of dirty in a way, they were here in the states getting an education, but really had no drive That eas then, and im sure it doesnt speak for now, or all the Japanese men. As far as the women go, my impression was they rarely socialized outside a group of other Japanese students. If you were in their classes they may acknowledge you, but rarely was it made personable. Now where i live the older Japanese people are very cordial, and the younger ones are quite standoffish.

Imsure there is a club scene out there where there is intermingling, but for the most part my impression is they date within their race for the most part. I used to frequent the import car scense for a few years, and found Vietnamese and Kprrean girls to be a little more open and friendlier, Filipinas as well. But Japanese and Chinese, not so much

Also it seems that a lot of Asian girls if they dont dat e other asians, will date a black person, but rarely do i ever see a white man with a japanese girl, at least in my area. One thing i will say about Chinese people, is their English is perfect;y annunciated, even better than we speak it, and Japanese always seem to struggle with the language here.

 

[WillEater]

Times change.. Butt generalizations, not so much..

 

[tylersailer]

I wonder if "Butt" is typo of "But"... Yes "Butt generalizations" do not change over times... We all love butt after all no matter what

Japanese females (girls/ladies) are more group oriented. They even start this habit from elementary schools. I do not know why or I've never heard of any sociological explanation. Just that is the way it is. I'm curious though. Is it more prevalent among Japanese than other Asians?

I heard a friend of mine that he has a couple of friends who travel to Japan on a regular basis, basically to fuck with Japanese girls, and he told me that they wear Barcelona soccer (football) team jerseys, and they're quite successful.

A girl in soccer uniform is my fetish... But it seems it was GUYS that were in uniforms Yes European football has been popular lately because of many Japanese players playing there. So it should work well. Very well if you are in some sports bars (where they show football matches on large screen).

 

[supersam]

I've been with Japanese girls before in Japan, met a few in Roppongi. I have visited the country 4 times now and had some great experiences

 

[Pussyhunter1]

In fact there are very a few Japanese(or Asian) girls that 'only date foreign men', the reason why the girls say that to a western man is to make the him feel good ONLY. If you believe in so then you can easily be cheated by a woman.

For instance(real case), Ayako is a dark skin looking chubby girl, she's not considered pretty from most Japanese people's eyes, no men showed interest on her both at school and workplace, so she goes to bars at roppongi to seek loves from foreign men(not only white but also black, Indian, Latino etc) regularly. They'd also make complaints about Japanese men (theory: 'their hate because of love').

Japanese & Chinese women like this type are likely to make up bullshits to western men like 'I date handsome white Gaijin only' , the fact is they can't get normal loves from men of the same race but foreign males (incl. white, black, indian etc.) A lot of this type of women in East Asia (HK, China, Japan, Singapore etc.) I've met in the bars, but you can find them secretly checking out hot East Asian guys all the time.

Japanese / East Asian guys who can speak Japanese are definitely having an advantage in getting hot Japanese girls.

 

[Muz1234]

I have never dated a Japanese girl before.

 

[Babahamut]

I'm always have a dream get sex with japanese or korean girl, But now i'm maried person with kids and looks like if I still not made it, It will be always in my imagination only
By the way, almost in any japanese adult movie girls screaming like they feel pain, while making sex. Why is it so? I'm know, that girls fealing good if You give them time to receive orgasm, while fuck them. Is it some kind of nation traditions?

 

[Casshern2]

I'm always have a dream get sex with japanese or korean girl, But now i'm maried person with kids and looks like if I still not made it, It will be always in my imagination only
By the way, almost in any japanese adult movie girls screaming like they feel pain, while making sex. Why is it so? I'm know, that girls fealing good if You give them time to receive orgasm, while fuck them. Is it some kind of nation traditions?

Perhaps it is the Japanese equivalent to US porn actresses acting like it's the best sex they've ever had...on camera...again...that week...

 

[Babahamut]

Perhaps it is the Japanese equivalent to US porn actresses acting like it's the best sex they've ever had...on camera...again...that week...

Maybe, Casshern2. Anyway, Japan actresses is just incredible with their exotic sexual power and in JAV videos they do everything to pleased their men. Its good.

 

[Steve81]

Hello, I dated a Japanese girl online, fell in love, married her and now live in Japan. I love living here and am very happy.

 

[Muz1234]

That sounds good. Do you get married in church? I feel like I want to ditch my phone.

 

[Steve81]

no church, just did the legal paperwork.

 

[Muz1234]

Do you work in Japan?