Would you date a JAV actresses?

[radaogapgap]

I was thinking about an interesting question.
Almost men these days watch porn, they also have their type of girl for sure. Especially porn stars, they have the appearance that we dream of our soulmate would look like.
So, would you date an actress? Most of us will say yes, who could refuse a beautiful actress?. But an AV actress? Many men would go for yes. But how about a serious relationship with an AV actress? Would you accept her even though her body can be easily seen on the Internet?
We don't talk about western actresses, just Japan ones.
To me, I might say yes, but if only she is not popular. Maybe because she is so gullible and in need of money. Not popular means that she dont aim to earn money by filming porn. That would be accepted, but it is not my decision, just my thought at the moment.
And, what is your thinking?
Feel free to vote your answer.

 

[radaogapgap]

LOL, I really dont think about that a girl would show her body to the whole country to satisfy herself. But most of my favorite girls have beautiful face, I wont believe that she coudnlt find herself a proper job, so saying they're nymphos could make more sense.
And I am not talking about idols, i'm talking about not-popular girls doing one-and-done job.
So anyway, like my post please, I need to earn titles, and did you just choose "yes"?

Wow so respectful. I'm sure your imaginary future wife would like for her to know you think she's stupid.

I am not sure I understand all what you're saying bro. Sorry

 

[Inertia]

If I was not already in a relationship, possibly. If she continues to work, there’d have to be an understanding that so long as she has sex with other people, I can also have sex with other people on the side (be it sex friends, brothels, etc.). Protection by both of us is required (unless she’s doing a nakadashi shoot where everyone has clean medical papers). I don’t think I could be in a total monogamous relationship with an AV star if I’m home alone on a weekend night while she is literally living every man’s fantasy of a harem sex party.

 

[radaogapgap]

Join the club because I don't understand a word you just said either ahaha...

LOL, I do understand you but I dont know why you said that, I dont think anyone stupid.
I thought u would understand me too I should check my grammar sometimes

I don’t think I could be in a total monogamous relationship with an AV star if I’m home alone on a weekend night while she is literally living every man’s fantasy of a harem sex party.

How about she stop her career when being in a relationship with you?

The fact that the OP specifically said AV stars that don't do a lot of movies leads me to believe he couldn't accept it in the long term.. and indeed, it would be very trying. I mean, it really depends on the girl, how much time she devotes to fan serivce, how much of a normal life she has outside JAV.

Hah, no one wants their girlfriend slept with other guys, so I surely dont date any av actress. I just said I'd accept her in case there was love between us.
Actually I plan to create this topic to get more like in order to obtain the title, but I wont get any because the topic has already existed.
Thinking that I should move to another box.

 

[Stib]

who the fuck believes in virgins over 18, me Id LOVE to date Tsubomi, and have lurid conversation and sex.

 

[pikuseru]

I can't speak Japanese so it might kind of hard for me to have any kind of relationship with a Japanese AV actress...

Girl being with a lot of guys doesn't bother me at all. I mostly watch bukkake and gangbang movies after all so it would be hypocritical. Any beautiful girl out there will probably get a lot of attention from other guys regardless. I don't want her to be an ugly girl. I'm not one of those guys who demands a virgin.

 

[darksider59]

I don't think that just because a girl has a beautiful face that she automatically has a ton of other options, there's many variables to consider. For many girls, it's just quick easy money, for other girls that missed out on education opportunities or didn't study as hard as they should have or have been put out by their family, or left their family for other reasons it's an attractive option over doing some crappy service job. The pay is higher, the hours are shorter (normally).

Quick cash is also what I think.

What I'm about to say is not related to porn, but it's about the quick cash goal. In France, a "gamer" girl is asking her subscribers on youtube to donate money to "invest in new materials" such as computer, microphone etc ... Her videos aren't well done (not only the edition, but the content is very poor) but you know what ? She shows her boobs (not directly because it's youtube, but she make sure you can see them) so guys donate. In one video, she clearly said " I need money for my channel but I'm 16 and I don't want to work part time." WTF ?
She's 16 and have a fucked up mentality and thinks like those stupid TV reality people.

She uses her body (so it's like prostitution 2.0) to ask for 1600 euros. The thing that people didn't realise is that the plateform system is "by month". Now, her donation page shows +7000 euros/month in donation ! Here is the girl (100% bitch look, I hate that kind of superficial girls) :



Now, more and more teens want cash but don't want to work for it. (when I was a teen, I had friends who worked part time in a fast food. Me, I created websites to earn money with them because I liked creating websites. It's still a lot of work)
Many youtubers work on their vids many hours per day so they clearly deserve money for their content. This girl doesn't do that at all.

So, with this example, I truly believe that most of girls do porn for the same reasons, quick money. But you somewhat need to have "something" to get well paid and do several movies. Even if it's easy money, there are "big" consequences that can occure many years later (can't get a "classic" job because of your porn past, what if your kids know about it, ...).

One girl I like, Sena Mao (sadly retired couple months ago) did AV because she was waiting to be accepted in university (well, that's what I think because she stopped to focus on her studies because she got accepted).

Now, to the question Would you date a JAV actresses?, I would say it depends (so the third option). It depends on what kind of movies she did lol. A girl like Sena Mao (again), for sure. She has an angel face and her movies were classic I would say nothing hardcore. She has goals (university) so she isn't in a bad mental state where she thinks "oh, I don't/can't want to do anything that need motivation and perseverance so I will stay in porn and do whatever I'm asked".
Another good example is Yuma Asami. Retired superstar, and in her case, even if she's famous, I don't mind. she does music (so she also has other goals) and she so freaking cheerful everytime. She seems to have a very friendly personnality so that's perfect (needless to say that her body is perfect).

 

[ding73ding]

She shows her boobs (not directly because it's youtube, but she make sure you can see them) so guys donate. In one video, she clearly said " I need money for my channel but I'm 16 and I don't want to work part time." WTF ?

Wait what? Girl making money for showing her boobs? And you hate them? That's fucked up!

Fine if you don't respect her as a gamer or youtuber. Yeah I get it. Ranking, trophy points etc says all. Her game is her game no matter if she's a fat slob or busty idol. Or if you are not fan of that "bitch" type (I'm with you). But how could we hate her for selling her body??? Bravo! We salute girls for selling her body. At least we know she spend it on hardware not drugs. Anyway no matter our personal opinion about any individuals, we have NO right, ABSOLUTELY NONE, to make value judgement for how others exploit their own mind or body, as long as it's a legal, ethical transaction, and both buyers and sellers are free will blah blah.

If I have some issue on this, it's on the nerd otakus who throw money at "gamer girls" who play the same game while wearing cheap make-up and barely show a little cleavage from push-up bra. I bet 99% of them are cherry boys.

 

[Ghostbird]

Wait what? Girl making money for showing her boobs? And you hate them? That's fucked up!

Fine if you don't respect her as a gamer or youtuber. Yeah I get it. Ranking, trophy points etc says all. Her game is her game no matter if she's a fat slob or busty idol. Or if you are not fan of that "bitch" type (I'm with you). But how could we hate her for selling her body??? Bravo! We salute girls for selling her body. At least we know she spend it on hardware not drugs. Anyway no matter our personal opinion about any individuals, we have NO right, ABSOLUTELY NONE, to make value judgement for how others exploit their own mind or body, as long as it's a legal, ethical transaction, and both buyers and sellers are free will blah blah.

If I have some issue on this, it's on the nerd otakus who throw money at "gamer girls" who play the same game while wearing cheap make-up and barely show a little cleavage from push-up bra. I bet 99% of them are cherry boys.

The problem is that they are using Twitch.

https://www.twitch.tv/p/terms-of-service

"Further, BY USING THE TWITCH SERVICE, INCLUDING THE INTERACTIVE AREAS YOU AGREE NOT TO post, upload to, transmit, distribute, store, create or otherwise publish through the Twitch Service any of the following:

1. Content that would constitute, encourage or provide instructions for a criminal offense, violate the rights of any party, or that would otherwise create liability or violate any local, state, national or international law or regulation;
   
   
2. Content that may infringe any patent, trademark, trade secret, copyright or other intellectual or proprietary right of any party. By posting any Content, you represent and warrant that you have the lawful right to distribute and reproduce such Content;
   
   
3. Content that is unlawful, libellous, defamatory, obscene, pornographic, indecent, lewd, suggestive, harassing, threatening, invasive of privacy or publicity rights, abusive, inflammatory, fraudulent or otherwise objectionable;"

If they want to strip and show their vagina like legendarylea did, they can use camgirl sites for that.

 

[StageNinja47]

Quick cash is also what I think.

What I'm about to say is not related to porn, but it's about the quick cash goal. In France, a "gamer" girl is asking her subscribers on youtube to donate money to "invest in new materials" such as computer, microphone etc ... Her videos aren't well done (not only the edition, but the content is very poor) but you know what ? She shows her boobs (not directly because it's youtube, but she make sure you can see them) so guys donate. In one video, she clearly said " I need money for my channel but I'm 16 and I don't want to work part time." WTF ?
She's 16 and have a fucked up mentality and thinks like those stupid TV reality people.

She uses her body (so it's like prostitution 2.0) to ask for 1600 euros. The thing that people didn't realise is that the plateform system is "by month". Now, her donation page shows +7000 euros/month in donation ! Here is the girl (100% bitch look, I hate that kind of superficial girls) :

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I'm with you on some of this "gamer girls" and "professional cosplayer". I think that they are at less 3 types of girls that fall under the tags of "gamer girl", "nerd girl" and "professional cosplayer". They are the girls what just want to cash in on what they see as a quick and easy cash because they are hot and attractive girls. These girls are easy to spot if you just take a minute and step back and look at them and their online presents.

The second type of girl are the so call "professional cosplaey" these are huge or famous cosplayer that tend to make their full living off their cosplays, social media presents and appearances. These girls can be nerdy girls, but they can also be hot girls that just put in the extra effort to make the money. The girl that fall in this general category have to be taken on a case by case, and you as individual have to make decision whether the girl is a true nerd or just a girl trying to make a living through her looks and body.

The last type of girl are are the true nerd and gamer girls. These are the girls that a truly into comics, anime, games and other nerdy things. These girls are just trying to share their passions with the world. Usually you can tell right alway that they know what they are talking about. From what i been able to tell and gather about girls that fall in this category, can be average to attractive, but no perfect knock out 10 with huge boobs. Like the super famous cosplayer/nerd gamer girls. They usually have small social media ( digital) presents compare to their super famous counter parts. Usually in the 10,000 to 100,000 of across multiple social media platforms. Most of these girls seem to be trying to turn their passion into a career if possible, but other wise they just see their online persona as a way to subsidize their passion, a way to travel the world, and maybe make a couple of extra bucks along the way.

This are just my though I'm pretty sure that, you can break down the different types of girls into more detail categories. let me know what you guys think.

 

[StageNinja47]

I would date a JAV star. I would make know illusion about it being easy or a walk in the park. But if it was a JAV i happen to had the pleasure to meet and hit it off with, I would totally go for it. I think going to into the relationship know she a AV actress would make it a lot easier than finding out later on down the line that she is a porn star. Personally i would like to think that I'm open mind it enough to be able to go through with it, know that it just her job. Overall I think that he key would be communication. I'm not saying that i would to know every single detail about her job, but i would like to be in know when she is about to try something new and make sure that she isn't been force into doing something she isn't comfortable doing. On that note I would probably have to stop watching her AVs, I think I would still have to buy them so show her some sign of support. also at the bery lease i think that I would at least as her to not do something. More than likely I would ask her to refrain from doing creampies and swallowing. if possible bareback and gangbans but thats just asking to much from a AV idol i think.

 

[ding73ding]

Shrugs... that has nothing to do with discussion here. We are talking about moral judgement (hate) if gamer girl use her sexy appearance to solicit donation is "cool" or not. If someone violated TOS and got banned by the server, there would not be a discussion. If someone violated TOS and the server does nothing, we might discuss the behavior of the server admin. As long as the admin doesn't ban her, the TOS is meaningless (either her sexiness doesn't close the server's redline or the TOS is just empty cover-your-ass legal BS (which is SOP).

The discussion is gamergirls (actually AV performers and prostitutes as well) deserves our scorn, pity, condescension etc for exploiting their look and their body, instead of "doing an honest day of work", or getting an education etc. @darksider59 mentioned an AV idol implying he likes her for going to university. Which is FINE, but is there an implicit disdain for career sex workers who's just too lazy to get an education or "real" work?

BULL! It's one thing to say I would never date or marry a sex worker. It's a totally different level to hate or scorn another human being for how she makes money (or do it for free!) with her body. ESPECIALLY we are all heavy users of porn here.

There are even many a pop singer I would never bother to listen to her music but do enjoy the MV very much (k-pop too). I may not admire their music talent, but I would not pretend that I have any moral superiority over them just because I got a higher degree and work a technical professional career while they just bust out their boobs and legs and makes 100x more money than me.

If I have rage against certain people, it's politicians, bankers and lawyers (99% male). Sluts, bitches, porn stars, whores, they are far more wonderful human beings than all of them. If some of them do it due to broken family, drug addiction or other bad circumstances or even their own bad judgement and choices, the problem is with (mostly) their family (esp. parents) and society. And I squarely accuse any porn consumer who disrespect and scorn sex workers as the MAIN source of problems and distress faced by women.

Like the recent report that agency forced women to make porn, well it happens not because the companies are evil (well they are, a bit). But the real fucking problem is that these poor girls have such horrible parents that being fucked by strangers for porno is preferable to facing the parents. That's fucking fucked up!

Also the most horrible thing that happens to r*** victim is not the act itself. By far the worst thing done to them is the treatment by the police, their family, their friends, the people who suppose to love her and support her. But no, in reality they are worse than the r**ist, so many women chose to stay quiet and even suffer repeat offenses rather than seek help! Well who's the real evil here? The r**ist or the family/friends with scorn??

Love thy whores!

 

[StageNinja47]

If I were to find myself in the position of this being a possibility I'dI think the idol culture of Japan means that JAV idols have more fervent followers and that could prove problematic.

I think that dating a famous JAV idol can have its ups sides. For one she could have more leverage when it comes to the type of movies she does and the type of sexual acts she has to perform. Especially compare to less famous av idols. I think that i would be a lot easier for directors to try to force a less popular girl to perform act that she didn't agree to before had by using some bullshit excuses. On the same note a lease famous AV idol would feel compel to go along with the directors in order to to get blacklist in the industry, and be force to go underground and do uncensored work which could be more dangerous and risky.

If I was not already in a relationship, possibly. If she continues to work, there’d have to be an understanding that so long as she has sex with other people, I can also have sex with other people on the side (be it sex friends, brothels, etc.). Protection by both of us is required (unless she’s doing a nakadashi shoot where everyone has clean medical papers). I don’t think I could be in a total monogamous relationship with an AV star if I’m home alone on a weekend night while she is literally living every man’s fantasy of a harem sex party.

I think that asking to be able to sleep outside the relationship wouldn't be unreasonable, but I think it would be a "bullshit ans asshole move on the guys" part, because it show that your just in it for the sex and the fact that she's an AV idol. An that your not looking for a relationship. If she agrees to it good for your, but i still think its shitty to ask for that. If she brings it up and you agree and you were secretly wanted to asking for , but didn't its a different story. In that case I think that she just want to give you some leeway giving her chosen profession.

On a similar note, i don't think it would be out of the question to as for some more AV request in the sack from her on occasion. Especially the more extreme stuff you know she has done and want to try out for your self. Also i think that asking for a threesome would fall within a moral grey zone relationship wise anyways. I think that asking on occasion is fine but just don't ask every single week. just save the request for a special occasion that it's an anniversary. Maybe your birthday, but then your properly playing with fire and you got to play it by ear, depending on your relationship.

 

[Inertia]

You make good points StageNinja though in this theoretical situation, I'd have zero problems with her continuing work, but as a lover of sex with a very high libido (hell, look at my job), I could never be in a situation where I knew my girlfriend would be living out my sexual fantasies all the time while I'm left out.

I think anyone in the situation of dating an adult film star should already be willing to be in an open relationship. Granted, the actress may only be having sex with people 'on the clock', but it's still sex--something inherently extremely enjoyable. So just as I would be fine with her continuing her career, she would need to be fine with me finding alternative outlets for my own sexual explorations with the cardinal rule being no secret relationships from either of us. I'd be open about what I do and she should be the same.

Anyway, my two cents and feel free to disagree.

 

[darksider59]

I'm with you on some of this "gamer girls" and "professional cosplayer". I think that they are at less 3 types of girls that fall under the tags of "gamer girl", "nerd girl" and "professional cosplayer". They are the girls what just want to cash in on what they see as a quick and easy cash because they are hot and attractive girls. These girls are easy to spot if you just take a minute and step back and look at them and their online presents.

The second type of girl are the so call "professional cosplaey" these are huge or famous cosplayer that tend to make their full living off their cosplays, social media presents and appearances. These girls can be nerdy girls, but they can also be hot girls that just put in the extra effort to make the money. The girl that fall in this general category have to be taken on a case by case, and you as individual have to make decision whether the girl is a true nerd or just a girl trying to make a living through her looks and body.

The last type of girl are are the true nerd and gamer girls. These are the girls that a truly into comics, anime, games and other nerdy things. These girls are just trying to share their passions with the world. Usually you can tell right alway that they know what they are talking about. From what i been able to tell and gather about girls that fall in this category, can be average to attractive, but no perfect knock out 10 with huge boobs. Like the super famous cosplayer/nerd gamer girls. They usually have small social media ( digital) presents compare to their super famous counter parts. Usually in the 10,000 to 100,000 of across multiple social media platforms. Most of these girls seem to be trying to turn their passion into a career if possible, but other wise they just see their online persona as a way to subsidize their passion, a way to travel the world, and maybe make a couple of extra bucks along the way.

This are just my though I'm pretty sure that, you can break down the different types of girls into more detail categories. let me know what you guys think.

So true ! I've seen all of this 3 types on youtube and facebook. I also see that in metal music covers (yeah, completely different from gaming but it happens a lot too).

I think going to into the relationship know she a AV actress would make it a lot easier than finding out later on down the line that she is a porn star. Personally i would like to think that I'm open mind it enough to be able to go through with it, know that it just her job. Overall I think that he key would be communication.

You're right. If the girl is honest about what she's doing, that's fine. Find out later that she is a JAV actresss, not cool (lack of trust).

The discussion is gamergirls (actually AV performers and prostitutes as well) deserves our scorn, pity, condescension etc for exploiting their look and their body, instead of "doing an honest day of work", or getting an education etc. @darksider59 mentioned an AV idol implying he likes her for going to university. Which is FINE, but is there an implicit disdain for career sex workers who's just too lazy to get an education or "real" work?

BULL! It's one thing to say I would never date or marry a sex worker. It's a totally different level to hate or scorn another human being for how she makes money (or do it for free!) with her body. ESPECIALLY we are all heavy users of porn here.

I understand that my post could have a feeling of disdain for career sex workers but that's not the case. My reply will also be a response to ding73ding as well.
Girls like Tsubomi, who have a long porn career was obviously not doing it before continuing her studies. I'm totally fine with that, she chose to become a JAV actress. She likes sex and decided to do it as a job. I don't see anything wrong with that. I'm happy that cute girls like her can entertain me. They are over 18 and are in the porn industry that is targeted to adults.

Unlike JAV actresses, the gamer girl I talked about isn't in the porn industry. She's only 16 (difficult to believe I know). She isn't on a sex plateform, she's on youtube. Her fanbase are teens who probably use their parents credit card to give her money. Adults who buy porn, they know what they are doing. JAV actresses (not directly but you know what I mean) sell them exactly the product they expect (sex scenes). This gamer girl lies and uses her body in a popular mainstream domain to get money. In her video, she said that her computer has a virus, so she needs a new computer (that's the main reason why she's asking money). Really ? Clearly she isn't a gamer. Seriously, a virus and you need to buy a new computer ?

TL-DR : JAV actress do porn, as you expect. It's fine, whenever it's just temporarily or during a long period of time, they know what they are doing and they don't try to lie to you to sell stuff. The french gamer girl lies to her audience to get money.

There are even many a pop singer I would never bother to listen to her music but do enjoy the MV very much (k-pop too). I may not admire their music talent, but I would not pretend that I have any moral superiority over them just because I got a higher degree and work a technical professional career while they just bust out their boobs and legs and makes 100x more money than me.

I select my kpop group on their music, that's why I don't listen to a lot of groups lol. For me, it isn't a matter of degree but more that being in the proper domain of activity. A lot of Kpop mvs are getting way too sexy for mainstream TV. It's now like american mvs (so my complain is also against US pop). Again, I was like WTF when I read this article. Stellar (kpop) had no choice but go sexy because they didn't have success with their previous releases. Why about creating good songs first ? Having success is difficult. Like in every domain, if you fail, it's not important, you do another thing (ex: change of job). If you want to use your body, do it in the proper field.

If I have rage against certain people, it's politicians, bankers and lawyers (99% male). Sluts, bitches, porn stars, whores, they are far more wonderful human beings than all of them. If some of them do it due to broken family, drug addiction or other bad circumstances or even their own bad judgement and choices, the problem is with (mostly) their family (esp. parents) and society. And I squarely accuse any porn consumer who disrespect and scorn sex workers as the MAIN source of problems and distress faced by women.

Like the recent report that agency forced women to make porn, well it happens not because the companies are evil (well they are, a bit). But the real fucking problem is that these poor girls have such horrible parents that being fucked by strangers for porno is preferable to facing the parents. That's fucking fucked up!

100% agree.

 

[princeali692]

I would usually say no to this type of question but after pondering it a bit I would definitely date certain favorites of mine. I would let Rei Mizuna, Tsuna Kimura, Rena Aoi, Riona Minami, Ai Uehara, and several other favorites I have cuck me. The the fact that they are willing to do such dirty things is hot to me, so why would I want to stop them from making JAV? I could get all their JAVs for free!

 

[Supmop]

for dating yes

for marry, maybe yes if she already retired from AV

 

[Electromog]

I would have no problems with dating an ex AV star at all. Not so sure if it's one that is still active though. I don't really want to share somebody I'm in a relationship with with some other guys. I know it's for money and not for pleasure, but still.
I'd give it a try but I'm not sure it would last long, you can't control whether you get jealous or not.

 

[elfineer]

I mean if you really think about it. If shes with any of the main stream production companies, it always the same dudes having sex. So really shes not having sex with new people all the time. Also a woman's heart is as deep as the ocean... she might be doing AV for money or actually enjoys sex. But for a woman to fall in love is something else... if she fell in love with you, then that is something different. Perhaps magical lol.

 

[ukon no chikara]

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