Would you marry a porn actress?

[Faltoyano]

Just out of curiosity. I'd like to know the stance of you guys about this one.
I'm not sure if I would or should. It's purely delusional, but let's just image if you could marry your favorite porn actress. Would you?
Write your opinions.

 

[Taako]

Yes i would

 

[uguptas]

Why not? It was a job for them, and they made their choice, they are still human after all. It all comes back down to how you would think and of course if your mind keeps telling you that she has bathe in sperm, hundreds or thousands of cocks in her mouth and vagina before you, a penetrated anus and the list goes, then don't because you'll never be happy in this marriage.

She too choose acceptance actually, I would marry one and let my feelings overcome my thoughts. I guess I speak for myself because I too was sleeping around and fucking so many girls and will she judge me too?

 

[TheOppaiAddict]

If she was retired and healthy with no sexually transmitted diseases of any kind sure. However if she's an active performer which for all intents and purposes can be considered living a promiscuous lifestyle absolutely not. And before anybody ask it has nothing to do with my male ego or anything like that. I just don't like the idea of sharing my girlfriend or wife with anyone I don't care if it is her "Career."

And contrary to popular belief there aren't many married women in the AV industry there's actually quite a few. A lot of women are actually looking for a way out so they wouldn't have to do it.

So the second they find a man or woman who is more then willing to marry them they tend to retire soon after an engagement or marriage. AV for a lot of performers is nothing more then a pay check so it shouldn't surprise anyone that stars usually marry men with money case in point: Anri Okita.

 

[uguptas]

Most of them are lured by money at very young age, while some take it as an art form. It's true that many are looking for way out but just like when you work for a corporate company that has a high pay cheque, it is hard to give it up because your lifestyle is already there. I know a few escorts whom are doing it part time because they need the money to fund their studies and I have seen a few legitimate ones whom have really stop working and gone into the career path as a business admin person or as an accountant. They have an ugly past but to them, I respect that they needed a springboard and they know what they want but unfortunately many whom are in poverty and deprieved of a better life, they have gone into such. But of course some blame could be bestowed on them as there are many other jobs why porn or escort? I did ask before, they just do the maths for me and I just kept mum and a win win situation, I want something from them and they get something from me.

I also know two of them continued to work as escorts while they work for a corporate company, but they do it on part time basis and as a form of holiday which they are selective of their clients and they get paid to accompany men to overseas for meetings and holidays. It pays big bucks for them to keep their lifetyle, but who are we to complain about, everyone has some form of needs and desires.

That comes back to the question, would you even marry an escort, let alone a porn star? Well yes I too agree with TheOppaiAddict, I don't share my girlfriend or wife and I too tend to be selfish in some ways that I would also want to know her past, but then again I know a friend whom actually struck hard by cupid arrow and eventually married a once escort for many years, and till today they live happily ever after because he tends not to look into her past.

 

[Taako]

If she was retired and healthy with no sexually transmitted diseases of any kind sure. However if she's an active performer which for all intents and purposes can be considered living a promiscuous lifestyle absolutely not. And before anybody ask it has nothing to do with my male ego or anything like that. I just don't like the idea of sharing my girlfriend or wife with anyone I don't care if it is her "Career."

And contrary to popular belief there aren't many married women in the AV industry there's actually quite a few. A lot of women are actually looking for a way out so they wouldn't have to do it.

So the second they find a man or woman who is more then willing to marry them they tend to retire soon after an engagement or marriage. AV for a lot of performers is nothing more then a pay check so it shouldn't surprise anyone that stars usually marry men with money case in point: Anri Okita.

Well, well, look who's here lol
I will clarify that the woman will have to be out the business. I just wouldn't feel comfortable knowing she bangin' other dudes when we both leave for work.
Imagine coming home and she's still working and you know she still getting ... well you know
Then you have to take in account many days she can't have sex because she has several assignments and doesn't want to be sore.
Also when she finish those assignments, she might not be looking to have sex with you anytime soon because she tired.

I think people assume marrying a porn star means sex filled days from day to night but I seriously doubt it. She going to treat you much different than the people on the job. In real life, we are different outside the job, mostly 95% of the time.

 

[maload]

if she normal and have no problem both physical and health then i can do it
dont think much about life because its not just about fucking...
if you just need to fucjk rola misaki then its soo easy and have so many way to do it
....no joke.
lots of actress cant do it or they leave men after 2 years with so many factors.
people can thier own reason and its fun for listening them

i just have 1 question . why somebody who cant make enough money for 2 human want to be anyone s husband ?
so she dont have to do the old job and waiting for you on bed...
omg . want her pussy ? why dont just hire somebody 1 hours ? its better answer

 

[uguptas]

Well, well, look who's here lol
I will clarify that the woman will have to be out the business. I just wouldn't feel comfortable knowing she bangin' other dudes when we both leave for work.
Imagine coming home and she's still working and you know she still getting ... well you know
Then you have to take in account many days she can't have sex because she has several assignments and doesn't want to be sore.
Also when she finish those assignments, she might not be looking to have sex with you anytime soon because she tired.

I think people assume marrying a porn star means sex filled days from day to night but I seriously doubt it. She going to treat you much different than the people on the job. In real life, we are different outside the job, mostly 95% of the time.

This I have to agree, of course in our fantasies we would want our GF or Wife to be like pornstars in bed making you pop like a volcano, I know a friend whom runs a successful restaurant and he is a head chef there, that doesn't mean his family will always enjoy his cooking 24/7, he tells me whenever he gets a chance he would stay away from the kitchen. Just like what Taako mentioned, it's all assumption that marrying a porn star means sex filled days from day to night. Don't say porn star, imagine your girlfriend is an escort, she has sex with men just a few times a week due to her job, and usually people who book escorts will bang them at least 2-3 times a day, i can speak for it because when i book escorts for over 8 hours to wind down from a business trip, I'll bang them 3-4 times at least, the first time is usually a blow job from her then followed by bathroom play where sometimes she can stroke you till you come the second time, third is some cuddling on the bed and the penetration begins, and once more before she leaves.

That is just an 8 hour frame, imagine she sees 5 guys in a week, and each girl fucks her for just 3 times and that is over 15 fucks, i'm not sure if you are her BF or husband will be getting any good quality fucks. If you are close to those over 30 years escorts ask them, many of them started when they are 19 or 20, they lost count on how many men or cocks they have sucked in their life.

Again it's just sad at many times they choose such a career and to be judge and generalized. I have spoken to many and they too are looking for a guy who can accept them as they are and if the guy is able to take care of them and not let the past get in the way, they will go with them.

 

[Taako]

This I have to agree, of course in our fantasies we would want our GF or Wife to be like pornstars in bed making you pop like a volcano, I know a friend whom runs a successful restaurant and he is a head chef there, that doesn't mean his family will always enjoy his cooking 24/7, he tells me whenever he gets a chance he would stay away from the kitchen. Just like what Taako mentioned, it's all assumption that marrying a porn star means sex filled days from day to night. Don't say porn star, imagine your girlfriend is an escort, she has sex with men just a few times a week due to her job, and usually people who book escorts will bang them at least 2-3 times a day, i can speak for it because when i book escorts for over 8 hours to wind down from a business trip, I'll bang them 3-4 times at least, the first time is usually a blow job from her then followed by bathroom play where sometimes she can stroke you till you come the second time, third is some cuddling on the bed and the penetration begins, and once more before she leaves.

That is just an 8 hour frame, imagine she sees 5 guys in a week, and each girl fucks her for just 3 times and that is over 15 fucks, i'm not sure if you are her BF or husband will be getting any good quality fucks. If you are close to those over 30 years escorts ask them, many of them started when they are 19 or 20, they lost count on how many men or cocks they have sucked in their life.

Again it's just sad at many times they choose such a career and to be judge and generalized. I have spoken to many and they too are looking for a guy who can accept them as they are and if the guy is able to take care of them and not let the past get in the way, they will go with them.

This is good insight. I would imagine even if a guy and girl reach an understanding, he will probably grow tired of her during this as a career eventually. And for many porn actress its a career. That's why many are not marry. I don't consider myself selfish.. but after awhile I will start to have problems with it. Just being honest lol

 

[Taako]

if she normal and have no problem both physical and health then i can do it
dont think much about life because its not just about fucking...
if you just need to fucjk rola misaki then its soo easy and have so many way to do it
....no joke.
lots of actress cant do it or they leave men after 2 years with so many factors.
people can thier own reason and its fun for listening them

i just have 1 question . why somebody who cant make enough money for 2 human want to be anyone s husband ?
so she dont have to do the old job and waiting for you on bed...
omg . want her pussy ? why dont just hire somebody 1 hours ? its better answer

Your question is easy, because money isn't everything and porn stars aren't living the high life. Female exes make good money and they are usually married.

 

[放开那飞鸟]

It’s not much different from ordinary people nowadays, except that pornographic actors are in the light and ordinary people are in the dark.

 

[Taako]

It’s not much different from ordinary people nowadays, except that pornographic actors are in the light and ordinary people are in the dark.

I think that's the mistake people make. Porn actors aren't ordinary people when they try marrying or dating a porn star. It's a totally different situation. As someone stated that's why many of them don't have relationship, unless it's someone in the business or don't know.

It's hard to guess the percentage of not married/relationships, but I feel it's easily over 70% in that chosen profession. Just like I would guess female exes are maybe 20-30%. Schoolteacher/nurses maybe 15% or less.

Again this is just my opinion.

 

[uguptas]

This is good insight. I would imagine even if a guy and girl reach an understanding, he will probably grow tired of her during this as a career eventually. And for many porn actress its a career. That's why many are not marry. I don't consider myself selfish.. but after awhile I will start to have problems with it. Just being honest lol

Well, it is proven to a certain extend porn can spoil relationships, and men over the many centuries have always been the species that like fornication here and there but there is a growing behaviour of women and girls as well, as many are sleeping here and there. Women now can equally behave like men, grow tired of their current men, I do have a few friends that they divorce with their wives and immediately on their wive FB pages, they are with another men and sometimes after a few months another man.

The world is changing and the more people get exposed and educate themselves on the internet the more curious we are. After all we are humans and being curious and exploring things is in our DNA.

 

[uguptas]

I think that's the mistake people make. Porn actors aren't ordinary people when they try marrying or dating a porn star. It's a totally different situation. As someone stated that's why many of them don't have relationship, unless it's someone in the business or don't know.

It's hard to guess the percentage of not married/relationships, but I feel it's easily over 70% in that chosen profession. Just like I would guess female exes are maybe 20-30%. Schoolteacher/nurses maybe 15% or less.

Again this is just my opinion.

You're not wrong, but then again, is marrying important now? look at most countries and cultures, the days of you must get a bride or a woman needs to get marry before she turns 30 or so, this sort of belief has been lifted and I always debate with my older uncles and aunties, the fuck for, what's with you people and getting married and have kids?

I always tell younger people that I know, even my younger staff, just go and enjoy life, don't put marriage as the need to do and top of the bucket list. Even girls now shy away from marriage, let alone being in a relationship they prefer to be mobile, career climbing, travel.

 

[uguptas]

Your question is easy, because money isn't everything and porn stars aren't living the high life. Female exes make good money and they are usually married.

Porn stars do make lots of money during the days of Jessica Drake, Sunny and etc probably 70s 80s, when videotapes, laser disc, VCD and DVD was a thing, there were limited A Class porn stars then, but then as the world opens up more with new genre like webcams, amateur, homemade and such there were great alternatives to serve the world, and even hookers and escorts jumps into being part time porn stars with abit of extra they can be filmed.

You're right now that porn stars aren't living the high life as before. But top class escorts makes alot more then them minus the spotlights and being secretative as well as low profile.

 

[Taako]

Porn stars do make lots of money during the days of Jessica Drake, Sunny and etc probably 70s 80s, when videotapes, laser disc, VCD and DVD was a thing, there were limited A Class porn stars then, but then as the world opens up more with new genre like webcams, amateur, homemade and such there were great alternatives to serve the world, and even hookers and escorts jumps into being part time porn stars with abit of extra they can be filmed.

You're right now that porn stars aren't living the high life as before. But top class escorts makes alot more then them minus the spotlights and being secretative as well as low profile.

Right. And with more streaming services like Onlyfans and people not wanting to meet IRL, I will say even escorts will soon be feeling the pinch.

 

[Taako]

You're not wrong, but then again, is marrying important now? look at most countries and cultures, the days of you must get a bride or a woman needs to get marry before she turns 30 or so, this sort of belief has been lifted and I always debate with my older uncles and aunties, the fuck for, what's with you people and getting married and have kids?

I always tell younger people that I know, even my younger staff, just go and enjoy life, don't put marriage as the need to do and top of the bucket list. Even girls now shy away from marriage, let alone being in a relationship they prefer to be mobile, career climbing, travel.

Marriage is more important for women and girls then guys. Most women are always concern about old age, support, and child birth. So yeah marriage is still important to over 50% of the women around the world.
Girls today say they want the single life but then you find many still crying about not having a man. I wouldn't let a few internet girls make you believe women as a whole doesn't want marriage. That's a false narrative.

 

[Taako]

Well, it is proven to a certain extend porn can spoil relationships, and men over the many centuries have always been the species that like fornication here and there but there is a growing behaviour of women and girls as well, as many are sleeping here and there. Women now can equally behave like men, grow tired of their current men, I do have a few friends that they divorce with their wives and immediately on their wive FB pages, they are with another men and sometimes after a few months another man.

The world is changing and the more people get exposed and educate themselves on the internet the more curious we are. After all we are humans and being curious and exploring things is in our DNA.

a few I agree. But men will always be the ones to sleep around before women and most likely fathered many kids and not care. It's part of our genetic makeup I supposed, but I'm not about such behaviors and pathetic excuse like that lol
Guess this is steering off topic, so I will let this go and return to the topic at hand. Thank you.

 

[TheOppaiAddict]

The majority of women in the Adult Film Industry push this narrow-minded mantra of "I Don't Need A Man" which is high comedy. You know the ones they constantly post "Motivational Quotes" and selfies showing off the money they make. However these same women would leave the industry in a heartbeat the second a Man with money would want to be with them.

I'm reminded of a conversation I had with Adult Film Star "Victoria June" awhile ago on Twitter. The conversation started when she tweeted out: "No woman likes community dick. Or charity dick. I want my dick to be expensive and exclusive. And if he's fucking it better be making him money" oh man I couldn't begin to tell you how absolutely ridiculous that statement looks even more so coming from her.

My response was basically to tell her that it was a long winded way of saying she was looking for a guy with deep pockets. Then she proceeded to compare her "Job" to that of a Dentist and a Teacher because she gets "Paid." The tone deaf arrogance of that statement isn't lost on me because statements like this have been said countless times by others in the industry.

What these women fail to realize is that it doesn't matter how you spin it once you step foot in that industry your tagged. The moment the camera starts rolling you can forget about ever being taken seriously. And if you do retire in this digital age no matter what kind of scrub job you do it's out there FOREVER whether they like it or not.

Now of course some people have been able to have a "Normal" life after Porn but that's not guaranteed. And contrary to what some people might believe there aren't many men and women out there who would want to be with an Adult Film Star even after retirement. That "Fame" and "Fortune" they have now only exists in that industry once they leave it all goes away...

 

[Taako]

The majority of women in the Adult Film Industry push this narrow-minded mantra of "I Don't Need A Man" which is high comedy. You know the ones they constantly post "Motivational Quotes" and selfies showing off the money they make. However these same women would leave the industry in a heartbeat the second a Man with deep pockets would want to be with them.

I'm reminded of a conversation I had with Adult Film Star "Victoria June" awhile ago on Twitter. The conversation started when she tweeted out: "No woman likes community dick. Or charity dick. I want my dick to be expensive and exclusive. And if he's fucking it better be making him money" oh man I couldn't begin to tell you how absolutely ridiculous that statement looks even more so coming from her.

My response was basically to tell her that it was a long winded way of saying she was looking for a guy with deep pockets. Then she proceeded to compare her "Job" to that of a Dentist and a Teacher because she gets "Paid." The tone deaf arrogance of that statement isn't lost on me because statements like this have been said countless times by others in the industry.

What these women fail to realize is that it doesn't matter how you spin it once you step foot in that industry your tagged. The moment the camera starts rolling you can forget about ever being taken seriously. And if you do retire in this digital age no matter what kind of scrub job you do it's out there FOREVER whether they like it or not.

Now of course some people have been able to have a "Normal" life after Porn but that's not guaranteed. And contrary to what some people might believe there aren't many men and women out there who would want to be with an Adult Film Star even after retirement. That "Fame" and "Fortune" they have now only exists in that industry once they leave it all goes away...

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Wow, you're awesome dude. Glad to see you have the knowledge and connections to bring your insight to the various forums.
At first I thought you was going to say, the other June
This is your bro, Mindblown hahahaha